Hi,
I am 29, 30 in autumn and I feel like I have ran out of time to live the life I always wanted. For me, I always dreamed of the stereotypical family ‘Christmas card’ house with a loving partner and one or two children.
I have been engaged but that didn’t work out and now I’m single, renting a house that isn’t awful but isn’t the dream, working every hour I can to save for a house deposit and pay off debts.
I feel like by the time I have sorted myself out financially, I have no time left to live the life I want and that makes me feel like giving up.
I have a great job and I have worked my way up to management. I earn a good salary and I do love my job.
Financially, I have made stupid decisions in the past so I’m struggling to save a deposit and pay bills at the same time but I’m a quarter of the way there.
Because I work so much and I am trying to save, I don’t really feel like dating because I’m not where I want to be in life and I don’t want that to distract me from my financial stability goal.
I’m scared that making the wrong choices in the past has ruined my chances of a happy future.
I always thought by 30 I would be settled with a husband and maybe a family in a house I owned and financially comfortable.
I just don’t feel like I have anything to offer right now.
I am 29, 30 in autumn and I feel like I have ran out of time to live the life I always wanted. For me, I always dreamed of the stereotypical family ‘Christmas card’ house with a loving partner and one or two children.
I have been engaged but that didn’t work out and now I’m single, renting a house that isn’t awful but isn’t the dream, working every hour I can to save for a house deposit and pay off debts.
I feel like by the time I have sorted myself out financially, I have no time left to live the life I want and that makes me feel like giving up.
I have a great job and I have worked my way up to management. I earn a good salary and I do love my job.
Financially, I have made stupid decisions in the past so I’m struggling to save a deposit and pay bills at the same time but I’m a quarter of the way there.
Because I work so much and I am trying to save, I don’t really feel like dating because I’m not where I want to be in life and I don’t want that to distract me from my financial stability goal.
I’m scared that making the wrong choices in the past has ruined my chances of a happy future.
I always thought by 30 I would be settled with a husband and maybe a family in a house I owned and financially comfortable.
I just don’t feel like I have anything to offer right now.