So you're saying that aside from registering the person as female, appearances should become entirely irrelevant and the emotional/intellectual appreciation takes over.
Like I said, you're a better person. I can't meet that purity standard.
It's not that looks are entirely irrelevant, no.
I'm just saying it shouldn't be the only factor, or the biggest factor. It's just taken more of a backseat to personality.
I realized that a relationship with a hot woman, would get old fast if we had nothing to talk about, or if I just couldn't really care that much about them as a person - or if I actually found them physically hot, but emotionally cold, and dislikeable, which is often the case with people with the Darwinian mindset.