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Someone bumped into my parked car and left a note.
I dialled the number, the number wasn't correct.
There was no name on the note.
The address was a place where they have service flats.
I was wondering if it was really the address of the person who damaged my car.
I went there, met this 70+ year old guy, and things got arranged.
I drove to a place where they repair cars to get an estimate, and the guy immediately paid me the money (he didn't want insurance involved).
So I'll have it repaired now (some ugly scratches).
 
I took my my mother to her geological and gemstone club meeting today because they were having some specialists there. It was raining and she had so many boxes so I offered to drive her. Anyway, it turned out to be really interesting and the fossilized crab she has is supposedly 70,000 years old. She was super excited so that’s a positive for me.
 
Installed Tinder on my smartphone, and made a profile.
I find it hard to decide: do I really find this woman attractive or not?
Some ladies have like 6 photos and they seem to look quite different one to the other.
I wonder if some of them are from a long time ago.
I put my fb: name in there.

I'm a bit scared actually, I haven't dated in like 10 years, and I still feel insecure.
Maybe I 'm going too fast.
I was supposed to work a bit on my self-confidence first with the sexologist, but with the new smartphone I had it was just too tempting to not install Tinder.
 
I visited an eye glass place where they do eye exams. I asked if they had any openings today. Then said no openings for a week. So, I left without setting up an appointment. Hey! It's a first step. :) My eyes definitely need help!
So, did you not make an appointment because you hate knowing that you are expected to be somewhere at a certain time or because you wanted to do it then and get it over with partly because you hate making appointments...wait I said that...but yeah hate appointments. To be clear, did you not make an appointment because appointments despite the idea of being convenient for you are actually incredibly inconvenient when the time comes because you may be involved in something else that you don't want to stop doing.
 
So, did you not make an appointment because you hate knowing that you are expected to be somewhere at a certain time or because you wanted to do it then and get it over with partly because you hate making appointments...wait I said that...but yeah hate appointments. To be clear, did you not make an appointment because appointments despite the idea of being convenient for you are actually incredibly inconvenient when the time comes because you may be involved in something else that you don't want to stop doing.
No, I didn't make an appointment. More then likely I will forget about it for awhile. Ha! ha!

I don't like to make appointments. One, I may want / need to work on something. Two, it creates anxiety for me. I'll have to write a note and look at it everyday. Then a couple days before the appointment I'll have to tell myself to check the time. Three, when the day comes I'd probably just say screw it.

I want to be like a cable installer. I'll be by for my eye exam between 7am and 4pm. :) But, better yet, can someone see me now because I'm here. Did anybody cancel in the next 2 hours, I'll wait?
 
No, I didn't make an appointment. More then likely I will forget about it for awhile. Ha! ha!

I don't like to make appointments. One, I may want / need to work on something. Two, it creates anxiety for me. I'll have to write a note and look at it everyday. Then a couple days before the appointment I'll have to tell myself to check the time. Three, when the day comes I'd probably just say screw it.

I want to be like a cable installer. I'll be by for my eye exam between 7am and 4pm. :) But, better yet, can someone see me now because I'm here. Did anybody cancel in the next 2 hours, I'll wait?
Holy honeysuckle, I think you and I might be the same person 😂
 
Holy honeysuckle, I think you and I might be the same person 😂
There are many exibits/attractions in different parks that require registering / make a reservation. I just ignore all that and walk on through like I own the place. A few times I was asked if I registered and I just say I'm good to go and I keep on walking. I've never been kicked out, just mean looks, which I couldn't care a less about. :)

Several times I just hopped the fence a couple hours before opening and I got to check everything out all by myself in peace and quite. No other people in my pictures either. It was great! Never got caught. ;)
 
There are many exibits/attractions in different parks that require registering / make a reservation. I just ignore all that and walk on through like I own the place. A few times I was asked if I registered and I just say I'm good to go and I keep on walking. I've never been kicked out, just mean looks, which I couldn't care a less about. :)

Several times I just hopped the fence a couple hours before opening and I got to check everything out all by myself in peace and quite. No other people in my pictures either. It was great! Never got caught. ;)
Yep, ive never been one for following the rules. Mostly harmless stuff like going and doing things my way instead of the way that was expected. I can say that despite my wayward approach on most things I've done really well to teach my son that he must follow the rules or suffer the consequences. His choice to choose and he is the exact opposite of me.
 
Yep, ive never been one for following the rules. Mostly harmless stuff like going and doing things my way instead of the way that was expected. I can say that despite my wayward approach on most things I've done really well to teach my son that he must follow the rules or suffer the consequences. His choice to choose and he is the exact opposite of me.
Good! Life is much easier following the rules. My life has been a pain in the ass. It seems like I usually do and think the opposite of regular people.
 
Installed Tinder on my smartphone, and made a profile.
I find it hard to decide: do I really find this woman attractive or not?
Some ladies have like 6 photos and they seem to look quite different one to the other.
I wonder if some of them are from a long time ago.
I put my fb: name in there.

I'm a bit scared actually, I haven't dated in like 10 years, and I still feel insecure.
Maybe I 'm going too fast.
I was supposed to work a bit on my self-confidence first with the sexologist, but with the new smartphone I had it was just too tempting to not install Tinder.
To add on this, don't worry, I get very few likes apparently, and up until now, no-one used the facebook name to connect to me.
But I guess I should add more info to my profile, but then again people cannot easily contact you if they don't pay, and I didn't pay either.
 
First time a woman responded with a message on the dating site.
Probably friendship only, but a very young woman (30), so I'm flattered.
I think we'll meet up, hope to have a real life friend then with whom to do some activities.
She looks to be a very open personality, but there are some reasons why this probably will not be more than friendship.
On my own I tend to not be very outgoing, so if I have someone who stimulates me to go to an activity together, that is a nice thing to have.
 
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First time a woman responded with a message on the dating site.
Probably friendship only, but a very young woman (30), so I'm flattered.
I think we'll meet up, hope to have a real life friend then with whom to do some activities.
She looks to be a very open personality, but there are some reasons why this probably will not be more than friendship.
On my own I tend to not be very outgoing, so if I have someone who stimulates me to go to an activity together, that is a nice thing to have.
I hope it works out. My best friend was a girl. We never made the leap to romance, but she was comfortable with a snuggle, and she was supportive and always always near by. We were inseparable for nearly a decade. I think she and I had a better relationship from being platonic than had we ever become involved.

Be content with her company. Then, you never know. Maybe she will grow a need for more.
 
I had a pleasant lunch with my sister and cousin in a crowded restaurant with really high ceilings and brick walls. I had one glass of wine and crab stuffed mushrooms and asparagus. I smiled and politely commented on all the topics discussed. I offered to pay even though I was the one invited. My sister was so pleased with my behavior I know I will be receiving a gift in a few days.
 

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