Rant - Supporting my brother

[CenotaphGirl]

If your brother can manage relationship he should be able to get by himself.

Ardour, surely you're joking, I know you guys struggle but lol women aren't the answer to everything. getting a total .. tart? Idk what they are called in NZ as a gf is not a good judge if he'll be okay without support.

 

[Unsigned]

Ardour, surely you're joking, I know you guys struggle but lol women aren't the answer to everything. getting a total .. tart? Idk what they are called in NZ as a gf is not a good judge if he'll be okay without support.

I agree with @ardour
Yes, I believe having even a "tart" being enamored with you is indicative of success as a male.
Beats the hell out of having them charge you by the hour and setting off their cell phone alarm at 50 mins...

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I agree with @ardour
Yes, I believe having even a "tart" being enamored with you is indicative of success as a male.
Beats the hell out of having them charge you by the hour and setting off their cell phone alarm at 50 mins...

I mean I am happy he doesn't have to resort to paying escorts but he is a victim of "mate crime" because he doesn't have the mental capacity to deal with these women. So many take advantage of him. He'd literally give his whole bank account to someone and not understand that thats bad or not something to do. Till this day he hasn't got a credit score because of all the identity fraud that happened when I left him for 6 weeks. Having a gf when you are a gym freak and have a decent bank account is well neither here nor there if they abuse you. Just because he is a man, doesn't mean he is not taken advantage of. In fact it happens in front of everyone and not many people care.

 

[user 164061]

Maybe he will be exceptionally annoying with the slapper you don't want him going out with, so that might keep him away from such women over a sustained period of time. I doubt these women in particular will enjoy hearing capitals of the world while they are mid dump, so it will become overly tedious to them. But it only sounds like he is quite blind to when people are using him for certain things, then he gets lost in that and even if you can tell they are using him he flatly refuses to believe it.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Maybe he will be exceptionally annoying with the slapper you don't want him going out with, so that might keep him away from such women over a sustained period of time. I doubt these women in particular will enjoy hearing capitals of the world while they are mid dump, so it will become overly tedious to them. But it only sounds like he is quite blind to when people are using him for certain things, then he gets lost in that and even if you can tell they are using him he flatly refuses to believe it.

If only, they all obviously love him, and enjoy his facts about random honeysuckle when they are trying to go toilet lol On top of the women that use him, he has friends that use him, he has no idea how to read or understand things and it's like surely, men on here cant be serious that because he doesn't struggle to attract women he's completely fine and needs no help. I've never heard such things lol

 

[user 164061]

If only, they all obviously love him, and enjoy his facts about random honeysuckle when they are trying to go toilet lol On top of the women that use him, he has friends that use him, he has no idea how to read or understand things and it's like surely, men on here cant be serious that because he doesn't struggle to attract women he's completely fine and needs no help. I've never heard such things lol

Oh no he definitely needs help. His mannerisms/behaviours aren't normal really. But will he accept that help? As he's 30 soon and will probably think he's ok. Even though he relies heavily on you for everything.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Oh no he definitely needs help. His mannerisms/behaviours aren't normal really. But will he accept that help? As he's 30 soon and will probably think he's ok. Even though he relies heavily on you for everything.

No he wants things as they are hence the ranting lool I just cant anymoreee im knackered and sick yet I have to help him

 

[Unsigned]

I mean I am happy he doesn't have to resort to paying escorts

Yeah...I'm happy for him too.
It's a lousy way to go through life.
Are there worse things? Sure.
But still, not the greatest.

Having a gf when you are a gym freak

It's more than being a "gym freak". He has the genetics to look the way he does. I've been working out since I was a teenager. "Fit and Trim" is the best I can do. Some guys got it, and others don't.

In fact it happens in front of everyone and not many people care.

Nobody cares. Other than for the things they want or that directly affect them.
It's naive to expect them to care.
YOU care because he is your brother, and good on you for that.
My sister stole my inheritance. Her 2nd husband is a man in his 70s who is worth 9 figures USD and she STILL STOLE the 50% that my father willed to me. By conniving my mother (who had alzheimers) into changing the will. THAT is how most families work. You brother is very lucky to have you. Most people have family members who suck.
I bought her son a car after she divorced my brother in law (her first husband -- who she screwed over as well).
And she still did that to me. Evil, stinking reptile that she is.

Oh, and my cousin still owes me $12K USD for when I paid his taxes for him...I'll never get that back...family sucks...

 

[user 164061]

No he wants things as they are hence the ranting lool I just cant anymoreee im knackered and sick yet I have to help him

Even though he's a brick sh*thouse of a human being he is harmless. People in his close circle know this and they'll use him as a doormat for money etc. But also the fact he isn't mentally "there" plays a big part in it as well. Because me or you would know someone was a user etc, but he can't see it and that's obviously painful af. Probably need to jog him on for a few weeks i think as you are still feeling sick.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Yeah...I'm happy for him too.
It's a lousy way to go through life.
Are there worse things? Sure.
But still, not the greatest.


It's more than being a "gym freak". He has the genetics to look the way he does. I've been working out since I was a teenager. "Fit and Trim" is the best I can do. Some guys got it, and others don't.


Nobody cares. Other than for the things they want or that directly affect them.
It's naive to expect them to care.
YOU care because he is your brother, and good on you for that.
My sister stole my inheritance. Her 2nd husband is a man in his 70s who is worth 9 figures USD and she STILL STOLE the 50% that my father willed to me. By conniving my mother (who had alzheimers) into changing the will. THAT is how most families work. You brother is very lucky to have you. Most people have family members who suck.
I bought her son a car after she divorced my brother in law (her first husband -- who she screwed over as well).
And she still did that to me. Evil, stinking reptile that she is.

Oh, and my cousin still owes me $12K USD for when I paid his taxes for him...I'll never get that back...family sucks...

No yeah, I meant as a society people don't care when men in general are abused not just my brother and omg your sister did that, that cuts deep. Awful

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Even though he's a brick sh*thouse of a human being he is harmless. People in his close circle know this and they'll use him as a doormat for money etc. But also the fact he isn't mentally "there" plays a big part in it as well. Because me or you would know someone was a user etc, but he can't see it and that's obviously painful af. Probably need to jog him on for a few weeks i think as you are still feeling sick.

Literally he is massive as you know and it's like because he's soft he just get taken so much advantage of

 

[user 164061]

Literally he is massive as you know and it's like because he's soft he just get taken so much advantage of

Outsiders probably think "woah!! won't be ducking with him!!" but his inner circle just know he won't do anything and he'll just keep being used. I'll bet if you explain this to him as well he probably has a hissy fit too due to the mental issues. And you can't have an intervention as he'll just smash his way out of the room.

 

[Unsigned]

No yeah, I meant as a society people don't care when men in general are abused not just my brother and omg your sister did that, that cuts deep. Awful

She did the following:

1) Lied to me for 4 years about not knowing about the will (she was my mothers executor AND had power of attorney AND was hew financial advisor)
2) Put my mother OUT OF HER HOUSE by lying to her about "black mold" and then sold it for $405K and kept the money as she had full power of attorney
3) Reassigned my mother's brokerage accounts to put herself and her rotten kids as beneficiaries. (All tax free accounts - the one crumb she threw me had tax liabilities)
4) Signed documents with the nursing home & doctors to take my mother off meds so she would die faster
5) Wrote the obituary and sent to the newspaper making herself look like a saint

Hell has a special place for that snake.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

She did the following:

1) Lied to me for 4 years about not knowing about the will (she was my mothers executor AND had power of attorney AND was hew financial advisor)
2) Put my mother OUT OF HER HOUSE by lying to her about "black mold" and then sold it for $405K and kept the money as she had full power of attorney
3) Reassigned my mother's brokerage accounts to put herself and her rotten kids as beneficiaries. (All tax free accounts - the one crumb she threw me had tax liabilities)
4) Signed documents with the nursing home & doctors to take my mother off meds so she would die faster
5) Wrote the obituary and sent to the newspaper making herself look like a saint

Hell has a special place for that snake.

Cant believe what im readingggg Jesus, and I thought me and my sister was bad

 

[Unsigned]

Cant believe what im readingggg Jesus, and I thought me and my sister was bad

Yeah...there's bad people out there...even the ones you my have know your whole life.

One good thing though.
When she remarried the old rich guy, a few of her friends at the wedding came up to me when I was talking to her and said "Oh, so this is your younger brother?". I'm 2.5 years older than her. I could tell by the look on her face that irked her to no end...hahahaha!

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Yeah...there's bad people out there...even the ones you my have know your whole life.

One good thing though.
When she remarried the old rich guy, a few of her friends at the wedding came up to me when I was talking to her and said "Oh, so this is your younger brother?". I'm 2.5 years older than her. I could tell by the look on her face that irked her to no end...hahahaha!

That would send me into an coma, Jesus... burn lol

 

[ardour]

Ardour, surely you're joking, I know you guys struggle but lol women aren't the answer to everything. getting a total .. tart? Idk what they are called in NZ as a gf is not a good judge if he'll be okay without support.

....Where can I find a tart?? Seriously, I inherited a house. Where be the hoes?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

....Where can I find a tart?? Seriously, I inherited a house. Where be the hoes?

I dont know any asian ones sadly lol so wouldn't float ya boat lol

 

[user 164061]

....Where can I find a tart?? Seriously, I inherited a house. Where be the hoes?

If you have a cherry bakewell you've got one

 

[Unsigned]

....Where can I find a tart?? Seriously, I inherited a house. Where be the hoes?

Come visit NYC.
I'll give you a tour of the best spots...