Sexual frustration is coming to a breaking point

[user 115627]

One quick google search tells you that they are hardly religious at all, but refer to a number of studies that f.e. showed increased testosterone levels for men that abstained for a few months and a couple of other positive effects like reduced risk for ED. No idea how reliable those studies are, not that I care much either. The problem is not really with masturbation anyway, but with excessive porn consumption and visual stimulation, wearing down your internal "reward system" and creating withdrawal states which can lead to an addiction. There is nothing new about this either, standard symptoms of an addiction to virtually anything.

I think their claims about women being able to tell whether you masturbated is more a self-fulfilling prophecy. If they deem their adherence to porn a bad thing (doesn't even have to be an addiction), it's likely they will feel guilt and shame in the presense of women and act accordingly. So once they "free themselves" from porn and masturbation alike, they act more confident. But none of that would even happen if they weren't stricken by guilt and shame beforehand.

 

[Sci-Fi]

I'm willing to bet most of them are bible thumpers or they follow Da Vinci Code-style Opus Dei rubbish.

That is offensive and judgemental to those who believe in it or are devout religious people who do believe it's a sin to masturbate. To each there own but that is an inappropriate comment to make. People are allowed to believe in whatever they want without being criticized or judged for it. Some opinions we should just keep to ourselves.

 

[Restless soul]

One quick google search tells you that they are hardly religious at all, but refer to a number of studies that f.e. showed increased testosterone levels for men that abstained for a few months and a couple of other positive effects like reduced risk for ED. No idea how reliable those studies are, not that I care much either. The problem is not really with masturbation anyway, but with excessive porn consumption and visual stimulation, wearing down your internal "reward system" and creating withdrawal states which can lead to an addiction. There is nothing new about this either, standard symptoms of an addiction to virtually anything.

I think their claims about women being able to tell whether you masturbated is more a self-fulfilling prophecy. If they deem their adherence to porn a bad thing (doesn't even have to be an addiction), it's likely they will feel guilt and shame in the presense of women and act accordingly. So once they "free themselves" from porn and masturbation alike, they act more confident. But none of that would even happen if they weren't stricken by guilt and shame beforehand.

I agree. I really should stop following that thread.  Because A. I don't have an addiction to porn. At least I don't anymore. And as far as being viisually stimulated goes well you don't need porn for that all you have to do is walk down the street.

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

There's a reddit thread for everything.

 

[Restless soul]

There's a reddit thread for everything.

There is. But nothing beats this site

 

[Restless soul]

I am having a lot of fun today on that reddit. Asking very pointed questions. Challenging all the so called experts there

 

[PS79]

Funny thread. I would say that if you've not found anyone for a quick shifty then perhaps you could do more. Not sure where you are in the world, but here in the UK there's apps like Tindr, Grindr and sites like AdultFriendFinder, Fabswingers, Fetlife etc. All of these cater towards every orientation and desires. There's plenty of people out there with social anxiety issues, or feel they're not appealing due to low confidence or similar issues - either way - there's absolutely someone for everyone. If you really are that frustrated, there's the paid route if your morals allow that. Either way, there's nothing wrong with spanking the monkey as long as there's no underlying issues. If you feel embarrassed about sex then it's entirely possible that a quick tug might leave you feeling depressed after

 

[DarkSelene]

We should have a thread about euphemisms for masturbation.

 

[PS79]

An oldie:

 

[Restless soul]

Funny thread.  I would say that if you've not found anyone for a quick shifty then perhaps you could do more.  Not sure where you are in the world, but here in the UK there's apps like Tindr, Grindr and sites like AdultFriendFinder, Fabswingers, Fetlife etc.  All of these cater towards every orientation and desires.  There's plenty of people out there with social anxiety issues, or feel they're not appealing due to low confidence or similar issues - either way - there's absolutely someone for everyone.  If you really are that frustrated, there's the paid route if your morals allow that.  Either way, there's nothing wrong with spanking the monkey as long as there's no underlying issues.  If you feel embarrassed about sex then it's entirely possible that a quick tug might leave you feeling depressed after

Thanks for the suggestions. Glad you find the thread funny.

 

[sentiententity]

A fleshlight helps...

 

[bd1974]

Funny thread.  I would say that if you've not found anyone for a quick shifty then perhaps you could do more.  Not sure where you are in the world, but here in the UK there's apps like Tindr, Grindr and sites like AdultFriendFinder, Fabswingers, Fetlife etc.  All of these cater towards every orientation and desires.  There's plenty of people out there with social anxiety issues, or feel they're not appealing due to low confidence or similar issues - either way - there's absolutely someone for everyone.  If you really are that frustrated, there's the paid route if your morals allow that.  Either way, there's nothing wrong with spanking the monkey as long as there's no underlying issues.  If you feel embarrassed about sex then it's entirely possible that a quick tug might leave you feeling depressed after

I can't tell if you're being serious. If it was this easy, then people wouldn't be sexually frustrated. Everyone knows about these sites but they generally don't work. If you are attractive enough to find someone via one of these sites, then you probably could just get someone through traditional methods.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Funny thread.  I would say that if you've not found anyone for a quick shifty then perhaps you could do more.  Not sure where you are in the world, but here in the UK there's apps like Tindr, Grindr and sites like AdultFriendFinder, Fabswingers, Fetlife etc.  All of these cater towards every orientation and desires.  There's plenty of people out there with social anxiety issues, or feel they're not appealing due to low confidence or similar issues - either way - there's absolutely someone for everyone.  If you really are that frustrated, there's the paid route if your morals allow that.  Either way, there's nothing wrong with spanking the monkey as long as there's no underlying issues.  If you feel embarrassed about sex then it's entirely possible that a quick tug might leave you feeling depressed after

I can't tell if you're being serious. If it was this easy, then people wouldn't be sexually frustrated. Everyone knows about these sites but they generally don't work. If you are attractive enough to find someone via one of these sites, then you probably could just get someone through traditional methods.

I fail to see where he said it was EASY.....
It's funny how people think, just because there is a simple solution that that means it's easy.  Rarely are things EASY, but that doesn't mean the process or concept isn't simple.

 

[PS79]

My post was quite tongue in cheek tbh. It's more the comments about masturbation advice (fleshlight etc) that's quite amusing - I couldn't forsee myself having a chat about this with someone in person. I look like the backend of a pig and when single was able to find someone with little effort. The concept is absolutely simple - that there's someone out there for everyone, just keep looking. Don't get too down, all it takes is that one person to stumble upon and you're happy. I would posture that for men the priority is sex, then a relationship. For women I think it's quite the other way around and just trying to meet someone for a coffee might work out well as the sex would come naturally later. Most dating sites are full of horny men who only want sex and many women are used to getting many messages a day asking for a hookup. Perhaps try looking for friendship first

 

[Menorahman]

Unless you have a very good looking face, you will probably never get a woman to voluntarily have sex with you. If it's such a big deal then you have to just pay for it.

The thing is though, once you learn the truth about women, having sex with them becomes pretty gross. Not to mention women (and top men) are having so much sex now that STD's are spreading like crazy.

 

[Sci-Fi]

Unless you have a very good looking face, you will probably never get a woman to voluntarily have sex with you. If it's such a big deal then you have to just pay for it.

The thing is though, once you learn the truth about women, having sex with them becomes pretty gross. Not to mention women (and top men) are having so much sex now that STD's are spreading like crazy.

As I mentioned with another post you made, this kind of talk is not allowed here.

 

[Xpendable]

Facts should trump feelings. Always.

 

[PS79]

Unless you have a very good looking face, you will probably never get a woman to voluntarily have sex with you. If it's such a big deal then you have to just pay for it.

The thing is though, once you learn the truth about women, having sex with them becomes pretty gross. Not to mention women (and top men) are having so much sex now that STD's are spreading like crazy.

As I mentioned with another post you made, this kind of talk is not allowed here.

Menorahman, I'm very glad Sci-Fi put this in polite terms as many would not.  You're far off being reasonable in your statement and if you can't post anything useful it might be worth not posting at all.

 

[Incognita]

how hard is it to "hire" a woman. options are there

 

[Restless soul]

how hard is it to "hire" a woman. options are thereI know I can do better than that 

How hard? Was the pun intended?

Not hard, just not the route I am.ready to go. I know I am can meet a woman the old fashioned way