Hope_Reigns
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I'm trying to get my bf to talk through our problems..I know full well I may be screwed regardless, but regardless of how things end up I think finding out what went wrong in the first place is important.
It's so so hard for me though...the thought of never being with him again just rips me to shreds. Physical pain as well as emotional. My heart still 100% feels we were meant to be. He's been my best friend for 9 years and we've always loved each other, and still do.
A couple of months ago we were talking forever, kids, wedding, the whole thing..I don't know what happened. I mean yeah relationships go through ups and downs, things get talked out and resolved and life goes on..but there was no talk, there was no resolving of anything, it went from him saying he was happy, to silence, to basic split.
I've loved before him, I've loved very much before him, but never, ever had I had that 'the one' feeling before him..and my faceless dream of the future ..it has his face now..maybe you don't know what I mean but it's really hard sometimes to word feelings and thoughts.
When things are good with him and I they're just..incredible, that perfect couple that you can't tell where one ends and the other begins..but..he shuts down when there's a problem, and things just fall until he feels there's no turning back.
I'm trying my hardest to try and get him to talk, to resolve whatever problems there are..just to find out if we could find our way back. I pray that we can, but I don't know.
Right now I'm just trying to hold together as best I can, it's hard cause..I've never hurt this deeply before ever..it literally is hard to breathe at times. I want my family, I want my future, I want the man of my dreams back.. I feel like part of my soul is being ripped away.
Sorry for my ramble, I just needed to get this out. I didn't do it well, half is understatement cause I don't know the words to express how I'm feeling in its entirety.. I just really don't know how to handle this. I committed to him heart and soul and I don't take that lightly. I truly offered him the full meaning of forever and meant it with every part of my being.
I feel sick, going to try and get a bit of sleep.
It's so so hard for me though...the thought of never being with him again just rips me to shreds. Physical pain as well as emotional. My heart still 100% feels we were meant to be. He's been my best friend for 9 years and we've always loved each other, and still do.
A couple of months ago we were talking forever, kids, wedding, the whole thing..I don't know what happened. I mean yeah relationships go through ups and downs, things get talked out and resolved and life goes on..but there was no talk, there was no resolving of anything, it went from him saying he was happy, to silence, to basic split.
I've loved before him, I've loved very much before him, but never, ever had I had that 'the one' feeling before him..and my faceless dream of the future ..it has his face now..maybe you don't know what I mean but it's really hard sometimes to word feelings and thoughts.
When things are good with him and I they're just..incredible, that perfect couple that you can't tell where one ends and the other begins..but..he shuts down when there's a problem, and things just fall until he feels there's no turning back.
I'm trying my hardest to try and get him to talk, to resolve whatever problems there are..just to find out if we could find our way back. I pray that we can, but I don't know.
Right now I'm just trying to hold together as best I can, it's hard cause..I've never hurt this deeply before ever..it literally is hard to breathe at times. I want my family, I want my future, I want the man of my dreams back.. I feel like part of my soul is being ripped away.
Sorry for my ramble, I just needed to get this out. I didn't do it well, half is understatement cause I don't know the words to express how I'm feeling in its entirety.. I just really don't know how to handle this. I committed to him heart and soul and I don't take that lightly. I truly offered him the full meaning of forever and meant it with every part of my being.
I feel sick, going to try and get a bit of sleep.