This just makes me want to cry

[user 188685]

My nephew is a very angry young man,he has had a very hard life all of his life,his mom had brainwashed him when he was a little kid,know he's in his 20s and has always been very angry,angry with the world,people and with everything,he thinks every one including my mom and I hate him,he hates everyone including my mom and I,it makes me so angry that he is like this and thinks this,especially him thinking that my mom and I hate him,it is just so sad

 

[Cherubino]

hugs ... I'm so sorry ... it seems you cherish his opinion very much though

 

[Bones 2.0]

 

[user 188685]

hugs ... I'm so sorry ... it seems you cherish his opinion very much though

Thanks,my nephew gets these mood swings,because of what he has,he refuses to take any meds.

 

[Cherubino]

Thanks,my nephew gets these mood swings,because of what he has,he refuses to take any meds.

so does he live in the same house with you ... in his 20s means full adult, anyone in charge there?

 

[user 188685]

so does he live in the same house with you ... in his 20s means full adult, anyone in charge there?

yes and yes,my mom and no one else can tell him that he should go on meds or see a doctor,he thinks that doctors don't know what they are talking about or doing.

 

[Cherubino]

speaking for myself it seems like a delicate situation that exceeds ordinary people competence and needs to be tackled with professional competence ... but we can definitely provide emotional support

 

[Bones 2.0]

yes and yes,my mom and no one else can tell him that he should go on meds or see a doctor,he thinks that doctors don't know what they are talking about or doing.

If bipolar and/or schizophrenia, I *feel for you. There is a family member with both plus borderline personality. When refusing to take meds, hades breaks loose and nothing will convince em to take meds. It doesn't matter if there life is crashing down. And, it takes strength to realize it is a "disease" and not retaliate.

(*Clarification: I feel for what you are going through regardless of his diagnosis.)

 

[user 188685]

speaking for myself it seems like a delicate situation that exceeds ordinary people competence and needs to be tackled with professional competence ... but we can definitely provide emotional support

thanks,that is very true

 

[user 188685]

If bipolar and/or schizophrenia, I *feel for you. There is a family member with both plus borderline personality. When refusing to take meds, hades breaks loose and nothing will convince em to take meds. It doesn't matter if there life is crashing down. And, it takes strength to realize it is a "disease" and not retaliate.

(*Clarification: I feel for what you are going through regardless of his diagnosis.)

thanks

 

[Finished]

yes and yes,my mom and no one else can tell him that he should go on meds or see a doctor,he thinks that doctors don't know what they are talking about or doing.

That's tough. When people aren't on meds they don't think they need them. Getting them on board / back on board can be super difficult.

 

[user 188685]

That's tough. When people aren't on meds they don't think they need them. Getting them on board / back on board can be super difficult.

yes it can be