tired of sex

[Azariah]

well not really sex. porn. i have seen some of the best porn on the internet and im tired of it. i want social interaction, making friends, learning about other people's lives so i dont get stuck in my own reality. i want listening to good music and dancing. any one feel the same way? im actually ok with sticking to one woman for my whole life, ive lost my fantasies of having sex with so many women. after all if my dad stuck with my mom for more than 30 years i could do the same with one woman, right?

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

NSA/FWB loses its appeal eventually.
I think that's normal for most men.
I mean, I guess it could be worse though:
You could be Will Smith right now.

 

[Finished]

I guess I'm lucky. I get tired of looking at the same porn. But, I don't get tired of porn in general. Maybe because I know that I will never have the real thing again.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I guess I'm lucky. I get tired of looking at the same porn. But, I don't get tired of porn in general. Maybe because I know that I will never have the real thing again.

You can watch mine Finished put some excitement back into ya life I think its a little creepy men watch porn but idky I cant put my finger on whats creepy about it, probably nothing but im conditioned to think of it that way? But question… do you think of it as cheating if you watch it when you have a partner?

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

I guess I'm lucky. I get tired of looking at the same porn. But, I don't get tired of porn in general. Maybe because I know that I will never have the real thing again.

I think the breaking thing for me is that I understand business logistics and legal industrial technicalities.
So I actually do understand it on a business level.
While I appreciate it, I don't agree with it anymore than I agree with the data mining that Alphabet/Google and Meta/Facebook do.
But otherwise, no, I don't get tired of porn.
I get tired of understanding how stuff works in a world of people that don't understand how stuff works.

You can watch mine Finished put some excitement back into ya life I think its a little creepy men watch porn but idky I cant put my finger on whats creepy about it, probably nothing but im conditioned to think of it that way? But question… do you think of it as cheating if you watch it when you have a partner?

The main reason porn exists for men to watch is because it actually helps reduce crime rates.
Testosterone in the the male physiology and neurochemistry is the second most powerful chemical in our bodies, seconded only to the mysterious wonders of Adrenaline.

Masculine irritability, insomnia, excessive amounts of physical energy, all of that comes from Testosterone.
Basically, too much of it and men kind of lose themselves psychologically and the body just goes and does whatever.
Not enough of it, and it actually wears on our vitality, life becomes more physically painful, depression sets in, etc.

It's all a matter of developing regulation.
Some men use porn, some men shoot for FWB, some hold off until Marriage, etc.
It entirely depends upon the guy.

As to rather it's cheating on your partner or not,
I actually completely stop using porn when I find someone I want to be with.
She then has to deal with me being a sex-crazed lunatic for a time.
And I adjust myself according to how she responds.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I think the breaking thing for me is that I understand business logistics and legal industrial technicalities.
So I actually do understand it on a business level.
While I appreciate it, I don't agree with it anymore than I agree with the data mining that Alphabet/Google and Meta/Facebook do.
But otherwise, no, I don't get tired of porn.
I get tired of understanding how stuff works in a world of people that don't understand how stuff works.



The main reason porn exists for men to watch is because it actually helps reduce crime rates.
Testosterone in the the male physiology and neurochemistry is the second most powerful chemical in our bodies, seconded only to the mysterious wonders of Adrenaline.

Masculine irritability, insomnia, excessive amounts of physical energy, all of that comes from Testosterone.
Basically, too much of it and men kind of lose themselves psychologically and the body just goes and does whatever.
Not enough of it, and it actually wears on our vitality, life becomes more physically painful, depression sets in, etc.

It's all a matter of developing regulation.
Some men use porn, some men shoot for FWB, some hold off until Marriage, etc.
It entirely depends upon the guy.

As to rather it's cheating on your partner or not,
I actually completely stop using porn when I find someone I want to be with.
She then has to deal with me being a sex-crazed lunatic for a time.
And I adjust myself according to how she responds.

Idk… seems to make some men depressed though, like they feel bad about themselves for watching it… I agree but no idea what it is they should be feeling so bad about lol I think its society's fault.

I think its sweet you stop watching when ya find someone though. But do you stop because you feel unfaithful?

 

[Azariah]

Idk… seems to make some men depressed though, like they feel bad about themselves for watching it… I agree but no idea what it is they should be feeling so bad about lol I think its society's fault.

I think its sweet you stop watching when ya find someone though. But do you stop because you feel unfaithful?

no you stop because the real thing is better lol

 

[Macsimum Myers]

well not really sex. porn. i have seen some of the best porn on the internet and im tired of it. i want social interaction, making friends, learning about other people's lives so i dont get stuck in my own reality. i want listening to good music and dancing. any one feel the same way? im actually ok with sticking to one woman for my whole life, ive lost my fantasies of having sex with so many women. after all if my dad stuck with my mom for more than 30 years i could do the same with one woman, right?

I made my own porn.

 

[Finished]

Idk… seems to make some men depressed though, like they feel bad about themselves for watching it… I agree but no idea what it is they should be feeling so bad about lol I think its society's fault.

I think its sweet you stop watching when ya find someone though. But do you stop because you feel unfaithful?

I always stopped too. It wasn't a cheating thing for me. Porn changes you. The thing that isn't really talked about much is that guys are meant to procreate with just about anything they can find. So, with porn, you get to have all kinds of different women at any time. They typically look their best, know how to move, and be sexy. When you are in a relationship you only get to have one person. Usually, they aren't wearing makeup, they are also tired, and they have needs that you need to be aware of and fulfill. So, you have to adjust to that. It's a huge mental adjustment. If you don't the porn wins because it's easier, it's available when you want it, and there's always variety. I've known a few guys that continued to use porn in their relationship and it led to a break up because of it.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Idk… seems to make some men depressed though, like they feel bad about themselves for watching it… I agree but no idea what it is they should be feeling so bad about lol I think its society's fault.

I think its sweet you stop watching when ya find someone though. But do you stop because you feel unfaithful?

I stop when I have someone because it's healthier for the sex life of me and my partner if I fully focus sexually on my partner. Unless they want me to back off some, well, then okay, I'll just balance myself out to her liking via porn.

I have a repressed sex drive. But that's because I need to be rational under pressure for my career. So I make it to where my hormonal neuroscience isn't a factor, or try to make it to where it isn't a factor, by exhausting that part of myself.

Watching porn doesn't make me feel bad, understanding the business logistics of the porn industry is what makes me feel bad.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I always stopped too. It wasn't a cheating thing for me. Porn changes you. The thing that isn't really talked about much is that guys are meant to procreate with just about anything they can find. So, with porn, you get to have all kinds of different women at any time. They typically look their best, know how to move, and be sexy. When you are in a relationship you only get to have one person. Usually, they aren't wearing makeup, they are also tired, and they have needs that you need to be aware of and fulfill. So, you have to adjust to that. It's a huge mental adjustment. If you don't the porn wins because it's easier, it's available when you want it, and there's always variety. I've known a few guys that continued to use porn in their relationship and it led to a break up because of it.

You’re so smart Finished! Thats why tired wives who are busy splitting bills with their husbands and being all masculine despise me… Its like my make ups done, body is done, and some men would even pay for me to have dinner with them on top of the meal. Some men, would never marry the girl they desire just a bill splitting no make up wearing one and spend the money they help him save talking to women he wants on cam sites, only fans, escort services… and the women get blamed but its men… they want variety.

 

[Macsimum Myers]

You’re so smart Finished! Thats why tired wives who are busy splitting bills with their husbands and being all masculine despise me… Its like my make ups done, body is done, and some men would even pay for me to have dinner with them on top of the meal. Some men, would never marry the girl they desire just a bill splitting no make up wearing one and spend the money they help him save talking to women he wants on cam sites, only fans, escort services… and the women get blamed but its men… they want variety.

Wow. You are a jaded lady.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Wow. You are a jaded lady.

straight statistics my friend lol I don't make the rules. If you think married men aren't the highest paying on the things I listed then... check the stats

 

[ardour]

Some men, would never marry the girl they desire just a bill splitting no make up wearing one and spend the money they help him save talking to women he wants on cam sites, only fans, escort services… and the women get blamed but its men… they want variety.

I'm sorry but I laughed out loud. No man deliberately marries a "feminist" to save money so he can talk to cam girls on the side (lol!) What happens is people get old, or the relationship fails. Not condoning it. I feel sorry for their wives.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I'm sorry but I laughed out loud. No man deliberately marries a "feminist" to save money so he can talk to cam girls on the side (lol!) What happens is people get old, or the relationship fails. Not condoning it. I feel sorry for their wives.

Dont be sorry Lol check the stats Ardour You know and I know I am right… oh yeah and sucks for their wives

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

You’re so smart Finished! Thats why tired wives who are busy splitting bills with their husbands and being all masculine despise me… Its like my make ups done, body is done, and some men would even pay for me to have dinner with them on top of the meal. Some men, would never marry the girl they desire just a bill splitting no make up wearing one and spend the money they help him save talking to women he wants on cam sites, only fans, escort services… and the women get blamed but its men… they want variety.

Actually, the over-production of porn, is why free porn exists.
And that happens, because legally speaking, the Escort Service Industry, is legally not the same as the Porn Industry.
The camera *is* actually what makes the technical difference, as goofy as that sounds.

This wasn't really that big of a deal back in older days before the internet.
Smut has pretty much always existed, arguably back to the Kama Sutra, even though that's not at all what the Kama Sutra is, to a Western understanding (and a very shallow, simple one at that) that is what it is (unfortunately).

So, to make this a bit simple without getting too technical as to how Corporations and Affiliates work:

A while back, Coca-Cola bought out the original company that made Monster Energy Drink.
That becomes a Subsidiary of Coca-Cola, and effectively takes their orders from Coca-Cola, very similar to how Google is owned by Alphabet, and Facebook is owned by Meta.

So, let's say that an over-production of Monster Energy Drink happens by accident.
Somebody must've made a typographical error, and they over-produced.

Coca-Cola then bulk counts the over-produced product, and sells it out as a whole for a clearance price to their other Subsidiaries and Affiliates, who later rinse and repeat and resell the discounted product again to Wholesale Distributors who put it into the hands of the Retailer, who put it again at a continued discounted price chain into the hands of The Consumer.

So where does free porn come from?

Free Porn websites are essentially the Affiliates of Porn Studios, and the rise of the Escort Service Industry has muddied the waters and blurred the line of what the legal and technical difference is as a business.

Where this gets shoddy, and the part that I don't like (and here's the punchline) is:
When you use an online platform for your business, if you actually take the time to read through the Terms Of Service and Licensing Agreement, as soon as you upload your original content to these such platforms (OnlyFans, various different cam sites, and even Twitch, Twitter and Facebook), legally speaking: You no longer own the Rights to the content that you made...

That's how OnlyFans dodged an epic amount of lawsuits when they got DDOS hacked and their database got leaked illegally due to their security breach.

So then you have international laws which are a mess of their own in terms of Digital Rights Management, and there are these 3rd, 4th, and 5th party bootleg sites that come out of the woodworks from 2nd and 3rd World Countries who get a hold of this stuff and because their laws are different and DRM is kind of a joke, basically nothing happens, and that leaked content just ends up circulating forever online.

I've known women that have henceforth stopped and walked away from being cam models and doing amateur porn, and their stuff is still floating around on the internet 5+ years later, and no, they're not getting any royalties or payment for it because of the circus that is Digital Rights Management.

For that matter, this also applies to anybody that does any kind of online media production, be it art, digital art, music, movies, and television series. It's an epic conundrum.

And the women that sign up for this stuff, either they don't know how messed up it is on a managerial level, or they just outright don't care because they're just trying to make a quick paycheck while not really thinking about it.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Actually, the over-production of porn, is why free porn exists.
And that happens, because legally speaking, the Escort Service Industry, is legally not the same as the Porn Industry.
The camera *is* actually what makes the technical difference, as goofy as that sounds.

This wasn't really that big of a deal back in older days before the internet.
Smut has pretty much always existed, arguably back to the Kama Sutra, even though that's not at all what the Kama Sutra is, to a Western understanding (and a very shallow, simple one at that) that is what it is (unfortunately).

So, to make this a bit simple without getting too technical as to how Corporations and Affiliates work:

A while back, Coca-Cola bought out the original company that made Monster Energy Drink.
That becomes a Subsidiary of Coca-Cola, and effectively takes their orders from Coca-Cola, very similar to how Google is owned by Alphabet, and Facebook is owned by Meta.

So, let's say that an over-production of Monster Energy Drink happens by accident.
Somebody must've made a typographical error, and they over-produced.

Coca-Cola then bulk counts the over-produced product, and sells it out as a whole for a clearance price to their other Subsidiaries and Affiliates, who later rinse and repeat and resell the discounted product again to Wholesale Distributors who put it into the hands of the Retailer, who put it again at a continued discounted price chain into the hands of The Consumer.

So where does free porn come from?

Free Porn websites are essentially the Affiliates of Porn Studios, and the rise of the Escort Service Industry has muddied the waters and blurred the line of what the legal and technical difference is as a business.

Where this gets shoddy, and the part that I don't like (and here's the punchline) is:
When you use an online platform for your business, if you actually take the time to read through the Terms Of Service and Licensing Agreement, as soon as you upload your original content to these such platforms (OnlyFans, various different cam sites, and even Twitch, Twitter and Facebook), legally speaking: You no longer own the Rights to the content that you made...

That's how OnlyFans dodged an epic amount of lawsuits when they got DDOS hacked and their database got leaked illegally due to their security breach.

So then you have international laws which are a mess of their own in terms of Digital Rights Management, and there are these 3rd, 4th, and 5th party bootleg sites that come out of the woodworks from 2nd and 3rd World Countries who get a hold of this stuff and because their laws are different and DRM is kind of a joke, basically nothing happens, and that leaked content just ends up circulating forever online.

I've known women that have henceforth stopped and walked away from being cam models and doing amateur porn, and their stuff is still floating around on the internet 5+ years later, and no, they're not getting any royalties or payment for it because of the circus that is Digital Rights Management.

For that matter, this also applies to anybody that does any kind of online media production, be it art, digital art, music, movies, and television series. It's an epic conundrum.

And the women that sign up for this stuff, either they don't know how messed up it is on a managerial level, or they just outright don't care because they're just trying to make a quick paycheck while not really thinking about it.

Soooo true! Also with the huge flood of porn it was only a matter of time men would get bored of it… hence a more personal experience OnlyFans offers. It’s women they went to school with, their wives friends and women that are completely out of their league that they are spending money looking at… men do have two categories of women the wife and the mistress they have women who as much as they pretend they dont want… they only pretend because theres no way.. offer them a small subscription fee then… we’ll see where their loyalty lies.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Soooo true! Also with the huge flood of porn it was only a matter of time men would get bored of it… hence a more personal experience OnlyFans offers. It’s women they went to school with, their wives friends and women that are completely out of their league that they are spending money looking at… men do have two categories of women the wife and the mistress they have women who as much as they pretend they dont want… they only pretend because theres no way.. offer them a small subscription fee then… we’ll see where their loyalty lies.

I don't do subscription fees.
The only subscription fees I have are my phone bill, internet bill, rent, water, and electric, car and car insurance, and health insurance because I'm American and we have to pay for that here.
I absolutely hate The Subscription Business Model.
The only thing worse than that I can think of is delivery service apps, and NFTs.

But also, I just outsource to free porn to rationalize the rest of my thoughts.
Fasting and crash dieting are also tricks I've used in the past when I was younger before I got old that helped reduce my sex drive as a man.
Your sex drive is a non-essential function to the brain, so if you're in a state of ketosis, the brain diminishes the sex drive, so does amounts of physical labor and activity (which is what the Kama Sutra was actually made for: To teach people to better control themselves mentally and physically).

 

[Finished]

I don't do subscription fees.
The only subscription fees I have are my phone bill, internet bill, rent, water, and electric, car and car insurance, and health insurance because I'm American and we have to pay for that here.
I absolutely hate The Subscription Business Model.
The only thing worse than that I can think of is delivery service apps, and NFTs.

But also, I just outsource to free porn to rationalize the rest of my thoughts.
Fasting and crash dieting are also tricks I've used in the past when I was younger before I got old that helped reduce my sex drive as a man.
Your sex drive is a non-essential function to the brain, so if you're in a state of ketosis, the brain diminishes the sex drive, so does amounts of physical labor and activity (which is what the Kama Sutra was actually made for: To teach people to better control themselves mentally and physically).

Although, the only time my sex drive diminishes is when I'm physically sick. Lots of physical labor and activity increases my sex drive.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Although, the only time my sex drive diminishes is when I'm physically sick. Lots of physical labor and activity increases my sex drive.

I have nerve damage in both my upper and lower back from years of heavy lifting.
Sex was never a primary life concern to me, that stopped being a primary concern probably when I was like 25?
I enjoy sex, but I don't enjoy sex so much to put it on a pedestal and proclaim it to be a life changing event.
Unlike suffering physical damage, which can eventually put me in a wheelchair, and that would be a life changing event.