TheSkaFish
Jedi Guardian
The "What is a Boring Person?" thread gave me the idea to start this thread instead, which asks a couple questions on what it means to be interesting. We know what we don't enjoy, but that only helps so much. I find it far more helpful to ask, what DO we want, in others and ourselves? I thought this might be an idea because maybe some of us feel that we are boring but don't know exactly why, or feel kind of lost as to what we can do about it. So I thought I'd start this thread in the hopes we can kind of figure things out and hopefully take some steps to solve it.
Anyway, the questions:
What is an interesting person?
How does one become an interesting person?
Do any of you think you are interesting and if so, why?
If you feel, or have felt in the past that you were boring, did you or do you try to become interesting? What did you do?
What does "interesting" mean to you, as it pertains to members of the opposite sex? What's an interesting woman? What's an interesting man? I'm trying to just focus on personality aspects with this - I realize looks may help but for the sake of the question I'll treat physical appearance as a separate attribute.
Anyway, the questions:
What is an interesting person?
How does one become an interesting person?
Do any of you think you are interesting and if so, why?
If you feel, or have felt in the past that you were boring, did you or do you try to become interesting? What did you do?
What does "interesting" mean to you, as it pertains to members of the opposite sex? What's an interesting woman? What's an interesting man? I'm trying to just focus on personality aspects with this - I realize looks may help but for the sake of the question I'll treat physical appearance as a separate attribute.