Good for you for apologizing! I, too, am 49 and a "gamer girl". However, I also am an avid reader and love going out with my friends to shoot pool and play karaoke or go out on the boat. So, yes, much like everything in life, moderation is key.
For those gamers out there: I just found Sea of Thieves in February and that is my "love" game. However, I'm pretty hooked on Dead by Daylight and also into the story mode of MK11.
SoT was my first 1st person shooter game, so it was quite the learning curve at 49! Lolol
Now that Joe is a millionaire there is nothing left to do but MAKE HIM GO BROKE!
Buy expensive clothes. Steal cars and soup them up. Commit heinous crimes and bribe the cops. It's a shame there is no gambling, or dropping a bundle on a date. There's nothing like frivolous spending and virtual smut to remind one how insignificant they are.