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- Mar 21, 2020
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ardour said:A single professional woman in her late 30's/40's is in a similar position dating wise to a man working minimum wage (few-to-no acceptable options)
I didn't see that when I was working. I saw that the single pro women in their late 30's/40's had self induced problems. They wanted someone similar to their age just more successful then they were. But, those guys were dating younger like previously mentioned. However, there were plenty of divorced guys in their 50's to 60's that wanted them. But, only a few women went that direction in desperation while saying there are no available men any more.
Does anybody, other then a complete train wreck, actually want a minimum wage man? I think the options are very limited especially if the man is unattractive to boot. That's not the case for the 30-40 pro women. Personally I've always found that group of women the most attractive for several reasons. But, the only time I was able to crack that group was when I was younger and successful, which is what they want.
I had to laugh when I was previously on dating sites and listed that I didn't work. ALL the feedback I got was that I was complete looser for not having a job. The funny part was I had enough money that I didn't have to work nor did they if they didn't want to. But, none of them even thought that was possible. Maybe they assumed a guy with money wouldn't use a dating site. Either way it made be laugh until I realized I was laughing alone. Ha! ha!