Why do i feel even more lonely because i've turned 30?

[user 164061]

I've never had anyone either. I mean, I've gone out on some dates, but it's never led anywhere. I've never had a girlfriend. So I'm in the same boat as you.

I have had some of the harshest rejections when approaching women. I've had a girl just say , "No, uh uh" before I could even get a word out like I was beneath her. A lot of people are just downright mean. But I still try. Cause I would regret it more if I didn't make any attempt at all.

When i was in my teenage years i had that kind of honeysuckle in school to be honest. They'd say things that really bothered me, then the "naughty" kids who knew the girls i'd asked out would laugh and question why someone like me would even ask those girls out. Nowadays it wouldn't bother me and i'd have witty comebacks they'd probably fail to understand. I can speak to women, but i just don't know what environment to ask them out in or for phone numbers etc.

 

[user 188685]

I've never had anyone either. I mean, I've gone out on some dates, but it's never led anywhere. I've never had a girlfriend. So I'm in the same boat as you.

I have had some of the harshest rejections when approaching women. I've had a girl just say , "No, uh uh" before I could even get a word out like I was beneath her. A lot of people are just downright mean. But I still try. Cause I would regret it more if I didn't make any attempt at all.

Very true

 

[Finished]

A lot of people are just downright mean. But I still try. Cause I would regret it more if I didn't make any attempt at all.

Good! Don't stop! I gave up a long time ago. Now it feels almost impossible to do it again. It's easier. But, you can't win if you don't play.

 

[Bones 2.0]

thanks,to be honest,I like being alone,you get to a certain time,where you're just done with trying to meet someone,and I have been alone for such a long time that I'm just so used to it that I don't even want to meet anyone,I like not having to answer to anyone,and I like being able to do whatever I want to do.

I like being able to do whatever I want to do.

The following is your virtual birthday present:

 

[user 188685]

I like being able to do whatever I want to do.

The following is your virtual birthday present:




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Too funny

 

[Bones 2.0]

I've never had anyone either. I mean, I've gone out on some dates, but it's never led anywhere. I've never had a girlfriend. So I'm in the same boat as you.

I have had some of the harshest rejections when approaching women. I've had a girl just say , "No, uh uh" before I could even get a word out like I was beneath her. A lot of people are just downright mean. But I still try. Cause I would regret it more if I didn't make any attempt at all.

I have always feared rejection.

You are correct about feeling worse not trying.