TheSolitaryMan said:putter65 said:Like I've mentioned before i went 13 years without asking a woman out. Felt exactly like you do, it seems impossible etc.
Once I asked the first, after that it wasn't such a big deal.
That woman sounds like she feels sorry for you a bit.
Lol, I kinda thought that myself. "Perhaps it's jus the sympathy effect"
However, I'm quite sure she must like me a bit. I caught her giving me a really cute stare a while ago, like she was studying my face. She got really shy when I looked over
Plus she sort of asked me to a thing with her in the evening (and I went), and she's always asking me to tag along with her to places.
I think perhaps she felt a bit guilty that she'd gone with this other guy for the lab - he's a friend of hers, but he's quite rude (frequently interrupts people when they're talking, which annoys her) and not amazing looking either, so I don't think she's into him romantically.
As for why she didn't sign up for me for this thing? I'm assuming it's because her friend put her on the spot when he asked. Frankly, I'm very confused though. I may start a new thread on my current position, because I don't know what to do.
have you asked this woman out on a date ?
I would if I was you. It sounds like you like her. Have you got her mobile number ?
Don't spend weeks /months thinking about every little thing she does and wondering.