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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Searcher" data-source="post: 980485" data-attributes="member: 184671"><p>I should think there is nothing wrong with you at all. There are all sorts of reasons why you get in an isolated position. It isn't your fault or anyone's fault. It is just what it is. Try and accept the situation without analysing who's fault it is. I know when you are in that position you become hypersensitive to perceived put-downs like the photograph girl or people ignoring you. It seems like everyone has got it in for you. It isn't true. You are reading far too much into it. It takes a fair time for people to get to know you. I understand why you say you will never go back but looked at from the outside it is exactly the wrong thing to do. You have to accept the situation as it is and be comfortable with yourself rather than relying on others to boost you self esteem. This is easier said than done but it can be done. Then just go to places where you might meet people without any expectation and without trying too hard. Whatever happens you are still OK. If you try too hard to meet people it actually pushes people away because they feel uncomfortable. (By the way I have experienced exactly the same thing).</p></blockquote><p></p>

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