Yes. I had two friends who ended up being prison guards. (Females) both have been retired for several years now. It sounded like it could be a pretty rough job at times. So I guess dating one wouldn't be any different.
Sure. We have all kinds of illegal aliens around here. Some are quite attractive too.
Would you help smuggle someone across the border? It's easy nowadays I think all you have to do is tell them to say they feel threatened at their home country and they can walk across and receive a free stuff.