Recent content by ashita

I'm sure it depends on the situation, but is it necessary to "fake" being a different person whenever you meet new people? For example, I understand why that would be important in a business setting, because it's part of the job to be agreeable and talkative. But when you are introduced to...

I am still in school, so I've been trying to join clubs and organizations. It hasn't worked out nicely for me, though. I feel very left out at gatherings and it's very scary for me to go up to people and talk to them. But I can see how shared interest can bring people together.

I've been asked this question a few times, in social settings and in interviews. Honestly, I really don't know. There isn't a single thing that comes up to my mind when I am asked this question. I'm average in pretty much every way possible and I have no outstanding qualities that I am proud of...