ardour
Well known loser
Does anyone take at least 3-4 conversations before they can loosen up and speak naturally? I don't know how to be comfortable talking to someone I've just met. It takes a few tries, by which time they most likely aren't interested any more. Awkward first impressions are a sieve through which all but the most tolerant and easy going people disappear. For whatever reasons most people aren't willing to give you a second (or third) chance. I can't exactly blame them since it's all they have to go on.
The worst aspect of these initial conversations is that I have no idea when to end them, so out of fear of becoming annoying I wrap things up rather abruptly (and rudely I'd say) Actually this is a problem in most situations, I hate being a pest so I just end it or trail off.
The worst aspect of these initial conversations is that I have no idea when to end them, so out of fear of becoming annoying I wrap things up rather abruptly (and rudely I'd say) Actually this is a problem in most situations, I hate being a pest so I just end it or trail off.