Recent content by bugzapper

Yes... you learn to live and not dwell... but part of that person will stay with you always. Itll be ok...

Im in my early 30s... have had plenty of gfs in the past.... former musician/artist... used to have loads of friends.. I had an emotional crisis last year, and since then, I have been basically alone. I rarely leave my apartment. I go to work. I eat. I go to bed (at home, not at work). I lack...

You are RIGHT man.... YOU ARE THE MAN.. I do need to leave here. My knowledge of music, history, art, etc. is deep.. I enjoy good conversation.. I enjoy intellects... and here, all there is a bunch of southern belles with fake Scarlett O Hara accents who are tying to marry the richest guy in...

heres a thought.. the median household income to be considered middle class in the USA is 50K... and that is household income. You are almost making that solo. If you cant afford to move out, you either do not understand personal finance, or you are a gambling addict. Im going to bet you simply...

I guess you are believer in statistics, eh... ask enough girls out, and one's bound to say yes eventually.. yeah, and even a broken clock is right twice a day, and it's broke! Good perspective. I dunno... you make alot sense, brother. Maybe the time just isnt right... and believe me, Im in the...

Gotcha... ok, but what if you JUST cant seem to muster up the courage to speak to a stranger? My ex gf was a friend before she was my gf. I played in a popular band (no, not Van Halen or anything) for YEARS, and to be honest... I had to NO work at all meeting girls. THEY would come up to ME. It...

Im lonely as well, and have considered using online to meet a girl. However, last time I tried was back in the late 90s (remember Love @ AOL). This girl sent me her pics online, and she looked like a movie star. In person she ended up looking like a tv star... Mr. Ed to be specific. Thats...

Thanks brother. True, and my brain/logical side knows not all women are after money... but my ex left an illogical fear in me. Ok, but to take you up on your suggestion... go out and find someone... How and where? Im 32... Ive probably picked up more women in bars in the 90s/00s than many of...

So Im in my early 30s now. Im an attractive guy. I stay in great shape. I dont drink or use drugs. In college and high school, I had several serious gfs and went on dates quite often, with lots of girls. Up until my late 20s, I dated pretty frequently, and last year broke up with the girl who...