Recent content by tocs82

Already thought of that... unfortunately three years ago the apartment was valued at $300 000 now with the crisis apartments went down almost half the price... even if we sell it now we will get around $180 000...

Hey, Thanks for the replies. I have not said anything to her yet, problem is that her world will collapse if I told her. And as I said I do love her... I do forgive her! But this is not a game, we need to make money in order to live right? It is so so hard for me to choose. I guess fate will...

Hi, I am around 30 yo and living with my wife to be the last 1.5 years. Due to huge problems lately we are broke. She bought an apartment 3 years ago to "surprise me" (without even asking me) and now she lost her job and can't pay for it. I just finished college and my dreams where to built my...

So if I get a job and settle somewhere which will take me at least 2 years I will know if its money or not, and if not that is 2 years wasted. Not for me for her. I am a man I can live in a dumpster with my dog and be happy but her life will be destroyed. Anw. Thanks all for the replies I...

I want to believe so too. Thanks

I will keep it as short as possible. I am with this woman, both 30yo, know each other forever and I moved in 1.5 years ago. First 6 months = perfect, last year = HELL. Too many bad things the past months like deaths, loss of job, loans etc. made her a wreck. I was holding tight and supporting...