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You may be right... Hard question to answer.. There are many bits of being alone I enjoy.. Whether it is reading a book, watching a show I really enjoy, or travelling somewhere alone, I often do enjoy these things. When I don't enjoy doing one of the above things, I very rarely think, this...

I think I'm still a bit unsure what my ideal situation would be in terms of my relationships.. I know I feel awkward and different because of my lack of personal/social life in contrast to other people. I know I also occasionally feel down/bored/mildly depressed because of how little...

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Whoa. Story of my life. The cycle for me : somewhat hypersensitive to criticism>guarded>form loose bonds with people>fall to the outside of friendship groups>receive criticism and distrust>exit friendships>back to step 1. Let me know if you figure it out...

Anyone?....

Hi, I am 25 and can relate to all of the above. I've been there.. Sitting alone in Uni lectures, staying at home in my my spare time.. I can't really offer any advice as my life isn't really much different now.. All I can say is, focus on your studies, hobbies and aim high. You sound like an...

I have a similar dream. Somewhere remote. A simple job, possibly something close to self sufficient agrarian.. But then the other part of my brain kicks in and tells me to deal with my problems..

Not to sound critical.. But it is worth remembering that you have each other, which is more than me, and possibly a few other people on this forum..

I go through phases of being satisfied with my loneliness and then not so satisfied, with feelings of restlessness and boredom. I'm now in the boredom phase. I know I should get some hobbies or new targets, but I'm just to cynical... I know that I will lose interest in anything new soon enough..

Genuinely impressive. Good work

25/ Male / London I'm a sensitive, nice guy (at least I think so), who has never been the best at building/maintaining relationships.. Not really one for descriptive biogs... Feel free to PM me to find out more.

I'm starting to see loneliness as a vicious circle or a cycle. I know enough about myself to understand that I am not set up for a wide circle of friends or constant interaction with people. It exhausts me and when I get exhausted I get even worse at it. So to my point: One of the main...

Another lonely Londoner here... New to this forum,so not looking to meet up. Hang in there dude.

I had friends through school and college. I spent a lot of time with them and from the outside I guess I could have even been seen as one of the cool kids. Looking back, it was clear there was distance between me and the group of friends I had and as soon as school was over, we grew apart. I...

I'm still struggling with my public speaking issues. Public speaking at work is always a source of anxiety and discomfort for me.. I know I need to get some classes or help with improving, but have always stopped short of committing to that.

I can relate also. I'm relatively 'successful' career wise. My drive comes from the need to survive and compete.. I often think that if I was to win the lottery, I would have nothing to live for, because I feel like a have very little enthusiasm to do anything else, if that makes sense... All...

O man, I've done this. I had a flirty thing going with a girl who took the same bus as me for a couple of months, and I never acted on it. Regret it to this day.. Don't make the same mistake..

Does anyone else loath socialising/ small talk at work? I'm fine talking about work stuff, but talking about other stuff is hard. I don't have much personal stuff to talk about, and I don't really like talking about myself so it's always awkward..

I think I can safely say I have no friends.. I have family, and I have other people such as co-workers who I do not interact with outside work, but no friends..