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The ex long term relationship must think I still ride on the turnip truck..... Long over 5 year relationship that broke off near two years ago...dated and did the try to get back together for nine months or so.. so now we both have hit our strides....she is engaged, has pics on her social...

Funny how it starts on April Fool's Day.... Only events that I plan on breaking it for are 1. Father's retirement party...good man and he deserves recognition 2. Board meeting for non profit I am on.... Other than that, I can not see other than business emails and Skype PM's, a real reason...

It did not swallow me whole. Im in pain but I breathe and it lessens...... know religion is not to be debated but my higher power (jesus) allowed me the strength to see the situation as it is and face it.... This is not how I envisioned my life at all but no one is promised a **** thing in...

does that mean that the problem lies with me? One chooses what type of people gravitate towards them. If my mental outlook is to look out or take precautions because I might get hurt or stolen. Does this mean that I would do the same or worse to people if given the chance? This last...

Some of this is being a petty person and dealing with hurt.... I volunteer for a local non profit. Answer phones, do filing, and talk to people for two full shifts during the work week. I get some satisfaction from this. People that run the place indicated that wish we could pay you but...

Recently I had been in contact with an ex that I have been having problems getting over. We had lived together for years and she went no contact for 90 days or so. She decided to get back into contact because her current relationship is not giving her everything she wants. Texting and...

during the last great relationship I had, i suspected the problems to my happiness would not be settled or fixed with a relationship. Now actively trying to meet people of the opposite sex, I realize the happiest I have been in a while is with limited contact in the outside world. Is Lonely...

Being single is too much hard work... Not in keeping shape, being polite, and being happy in myself now but the issues that are presented so early on. Most who have adequate social and life skills are married. The ones that are divorced or single (myself included) have issues that come out...

Happy Days to All My online journal for 2016. It is no fun to just post in the diary section where no one can reply. Thick enough skin these days. Little risk in this and the reward for myself in personal satisfaction and growth is great. So getting to the theme of 2016. 2015...

Just a bad year for the most part. I have stability on a personal level I did not have for the first ten months. As for the rest, meditation, diet, and very few relationships is the course for me. screw the secular world

Hi I do some online work for a couple of owners of companies. As the period nears an end, I send out an email asking if next contract is same, less, more, or discontinued. Largest contract responds quickly and I can schedule the rest. Sent one on 12/1 and no response. One more follow up on...

Multi year relationship that fell apart. I was mostly to blame and have apologized and she said she forgives me. During the year we stayed in communication, I would get those bread crumbs to get together to be an option or back up so to say. Having a lot of guilt, I accepted a lot of her...

I have run into a very bad streak of people lying to me as of late. Changed my view on it...I used to see if the fault lie with me.... or why they would do it or even how bad it made me feel or a lot of other things Now with the exception of this thread, I just cut them out I do not...

Few things have I wanted more than to break free of a certain person. I am fortunate that I am not within close physical proximity to the person. The relationship is toxic on both ends and I just do not want to hurt anymore because of it. We share no kids nor any joint ventures. So that is...

Good Morning, I suffer from being overly sensitive. Right now, I am trying to not work myself up and instead seek sources outside of myself to ask if I am being somewhat reasonable or again being overly sensitive. When it comes to birthdays and the lady who says she loves you. I...

Help me through this please. My problems are my own creation. I know that..I desire to change but go back to the same old patterns... How do I break free of this self destructive pattern in relationships and with people or Am I just better off throwing in the towel and accepting that I...

Just a thread to check in for those who think that their lying has a negative effect on their lives. My self image is so low that I have been lying for years about anything and everything. I have lost the things that I value from it. I have not lied today.. If pressed, I will explain that...

Multi year live in relationship. When it was ending, she told me that love is not enough. Is this a reality that can doom relationships or just an excuse to bail and not see it through? Could be a combination of both... I am middle aged. This was what convinced me that all love is...

Having a hide time going to sleep as of late, I went natural and took melatonin. It works well for me but has a side effect that it could cause/increase depression. I actually like it....before I was at war with myself often believing in people when I should not. Now when I woke up and found...

The "closer" I get to a person or even a business associate, I now feel that what they will tell me will be more likely to be a lie than the truth.... Sad....Casual conversations I do not think of it much but the most important people or business relations I now think they will lie to me. Woke...