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Thanks guys for your openness. I really appreciate it. It seems like I ignored all our posts but believe me, I have read all of them (e-mail notification configured). But past few weeks I'm tired to death and in my zombie mode I'm glad I can work every day in my job and take care of my little...

I feel it the same way. Thanks.

Guys. I'm really interested in the following topic... I remember my long period (about 20 years) when Valentine's day was one of the most unhappy day of the year. Walking in the town, looking at happy dating pairs, full cafeterias, cinemas. I felt I'm the only single beeing in the town...

Start with some small brain hack - smile. Just smile to other people. Smile to sun. Smile to the dog in a park. Don't feel like jerk just because smile. (I had a bad feeling when I started to smile years ago.) Smile regardless other people response.

Try to take care about somebody else. And don't expect they will start to care about you. Like to do voluntary work in a retirement home. Don't expect they will care about you and they will (may be) do.

Spent more than 20 years almost alone. Biggest life mistake was to set dependency between "somebody wants me" and "I'm happy". There is a correlation but not causation. Then magic switch happened in my mind (ok, it taken about 2 years) and I have decided to be happy regardless of other people...

- Look average? Great!. There are a lot of ugly people outside. You look better than they. - If you don't know how to smile, don't smile. Easy rule. - Trends are for the majority. Just ignore trends. I have no selfie done yet and still live.

Hi all. Pretty long discussions. I like it. Here is my summary what I have understood from your replies: 1. The woman doesn't owe any explanation. 2. The man doesn't owe message delivery confirmation. (Good mobile provider does it by default.)

To cancel date is very easy.

Hi all. I really love your responses because I can find parts I have written not a clear way. I would like to stress one important fact. If the woman doesn't offer another date opportunity, the offering new date schedule by a man just make things worse. Tested on humans. As many people don't...

I tested your approach hundreds of times over more than 10 years. It's 100% way to failure and lose an interest of the woman. If she is really interested she always offers an alternative. Even it could be next month (if she is busy).

Disclaimer: This is advice for the men not for the women. "Never put me down again" [wannabe Depeche Mode] - Sorry, I cannot come. I have an exam tomorrow. - Sorry, I feel cold. Have to stay in bed. - Sorry, I need to visit parents. Above are some of typical date cancelling text messages...

As the others suggested already: 1. Go to the event due to the event itself. Don't be scared by other people. If it's a band you like you are going to listen to music over there. If it's cinema, you want to watch a new movie, not to meet new people. 2. Enjoy it. 3. If somebody start to talk...

It's common idea that pretty girl is bad, impolite, dating just nice guys,... You wouldn't believe how much pretty girls are alone because all guys expect this. And if somebody is brave enough to talk to her he just want to have a sex. You can be the first different one. Ignore if you think you...

Seems to be not the right article to thread about shyness or low-esteem. Just look it from different angle. How self-confident man invite woman to the first date? Without any hesitation, without shaking voice. He usually attracts the woman since beginning and she is looking forward for this...

Sorry for late response. I felt similar way as you many years. I'm not worth of any friendship, nobody loves me as I have nothing to offer. I can't play guitar. I can't play basketball. I can't dance! You mentioned your list of thinks you can do better than others is short. It's great...

Disclaimer: Advice provided bellow is based on my own experience. I have been overcome more than 20 years or low/zero self-confidence, lack of ability to talk with women and s.o. What I'm describing is a my way how to escape this cage. It doesn't mean it will work for everybody. But consider it...

I done it 20 years. I done everything woman wanted. Just to not be alone. But every woman recognise weak personality. If man is always doing what woman wants even he doesn't like it woman will not respect him. Result? I was alone. Sometimes there is necessary to set up borders - No, I will not...

OK. I stop. Seems we don't understand each other. Not exactly. Women more appreciate me when I'm honest. When they ask me about my opinion I have no problem to tell "I don't like about you XXX". And believe or not they want to meet me more as they will get real opinion not just "something...

I never told it. I meant "as she would be ugly". OK - my bad English. I should use "as she is not attractive to you". It's not about how the woman really looks. It's about mind approach. It's the same as "Do you afraid your boss? Imagine him sitting on toilet."