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Stereotypical 'nice guy' here, heh. To be honest I find this more and more true to some extents. I've been passed up or not noticed by women because I am just that, the nice guy. I'm boring and I'm the safe option, and I find women of my age group don't want that, they want that 'Bad Boy'...

I personally see no problem with it. It's the scattergun effect at the end of the day. Try multiple things at once and you're bound to find something you like quicker right? Problem is that this sort of thing can only go on so far. I've heard of many people doing similar things, dating several...

Certainly not a waste of time. I have met some really good people online. Just got to find them really. I have met... quite a lot of horrible people as well. Suffice to say, those that chat with online regularly are certainly worth as much as the other 'friends' I know in real life. Maybe even...

Surely half the goings on in this forum are evidence enough that there are other lonely people out there like you. Hehe. You're far from alone in being alone. If that makes some sort of circular sense. I'm sure there are plenty of people out there who want what you want. The difficulty for me at...

I don't know about art, but I know about creativity and I think it certainly helps. Heck, I find when I'm busy and working on a project, I'm less lonely. Like, just occupying your mind certainly helps. It doesn't cure or treat anything, but it keeps you occupied and stops you thinking about it...

Indeed I have. Though I find it's more prevalent when it's a group of people that I don't have anything in common with. I can't really talk to them so I stay quiet and then I get bored, then I notice I'm not partaking in the conversation which makes me feel lonely and isolated. So yeah, I've...

I'm not sure on the contents of all seventeen pages of this thead but... well... replying to the original thought of the thread, I don't think there are. Or rather, I simply don't think broken is the right word in some cases. Certainly there are people who are far too broken to have a...

Quite. No game yet, which is quite odd. I would have thought people would be up for this. I would make a post or something but I'm not posting a selfie. No way. Not public on the internet. To a trusted friend is one thing, but... well... Though, it does seem that it would be a waste of time...

Seems like a fun little idea. Though I may just be thinking that because I'm quite into my roleplay. Nonetheless, I would suggest doing this in PMs rather than everyone doing stuff in a thread all at the same time. I imagine that may be... confusing. Perhaps then posting the whole conversation...

I like how 'man' is capitalised in the title here. This amuses me. Still, this is a very broad topic. I do wonder how the OP sees them as being hypocritical. It's hard for some guys to attract women. Is he trying to make out that they're wrong and that they do but they winge about being alone...

Then I will clarify my position, even though I feel I have already explained it enough. I do not wish to be single, in my thirty's and still without any experience of having a relationship. That is all I'm saying. I don't want that, and the thought that I might end up like that depresses me...

Reading a single line of text in my posts out of context does not reflect my views. I was depressed and unhappy and venting. I am sorry if my post offended you or made you feel bad. But you don't have to read any of them. Suffice to say, what I wished to convey, is that I don't want to wait for...

Same class, same people, all the time. Alas, like I said I think. There aren't exactly many girls on the course. I do try though, we're all just busy most of the time. But at least I offer right? I did try other things to try and meet more women but... well... I am very busy like I said and...

Well, I do do the first one. I always try and smile at people and say hello. Even at strangers. I rarely ever get smiles back though, which hurts my mood. But really, on my course I am known as the happiest person on the course. I always smile and say hello to people and I am always enthusiastic...

I suppose. However I don't really see anything else other than 'let's go to a bar and drink' in the list of activities at my university. There are some things I've gone to but I never really felt welcome there. Lots of loud and obnoxious people mostly. But still, perhaps I missed something. I...

I may have to look into doing this. Once I have my degree and a stable job I will have to start just getting out there as much as possible I suppose. Not my strong suit, but... well... what's the alternative? Stick around a house all the time? Heh. Thank you for the advice, and for the regular...

Thank you for your advice. And thank you for listening. Indeed, self confidence is something I really struggle with, and I don't think it'll be something I get any time soon. I suppose I can try and get out there and try and find what I want, but... well... Some days I don't think that's a...

Really appreciating this detailed insight Bayou, heh. As for the kind of people I usually go for, well... I'm usually happy with 'is female' and that's about it really. I'll try and talk to them, but often if I find I'm not liking them then I won't be interested. There always seems to be a...

Not a problem. Hehe. Your long and thought-out posts warrant them I think. Still, I don't know. People say I'm nice to talk to and I'm interesting enough. I can keep a conversation going and talk about a lot of things. Nobody seems to be interested in getting to know me past being friends I...

I think Bayouwoman makes some really good points. I would say, yeah, if I could give her a cookie for her thoughts I would. Heh. I dunno, just seems like most days it's impossible to attract interest, or find someone who might, or one has to settle for a lot less if they want a relationship. I...