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I can't find another thread for this. So, Happy 2020 everyone :)

Although I'm way more confident then I used to be. I've worked on it so much the past few years, I've found in some situations that I revert back to being stuck. Situations such as an extremely attractive girl that I'm really interested in (why I try not to develop interests right away now), or...

Having seen some of you post about how you'd love to be in a relationship. You need to think about what your asking for. My ex, who is considered getting back with. Informed me last week of this. It's just show you that some people aren't mature. Age is just a number in terms of mental...

So me and my girlfriend have officially gone separate ways. I've never loved someone the way I loved her so I'm pretty low. Been crying lots. I'd like to talk and make some new friends before I go insane. There is so much I wanted to write in this post. I'll save that for another time. It's...

So, I have two really dependable friends. Both of whom are in relationships and lead busy lives. I don't know how I got lucky enough to have them. It just happened. After assessing things in my life, I know I want more. I don't know where to begin. I want to try something more organic then...

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So, went on a date yesterday with a girl from okcupid. It was kind of awful. First a little background. She's 28 and messaged me first of the site (unbelievable!). She thinks I'm good looking, and likes the fact I'm intelligent and into politics (her words). She likes confidence in a man...

So, I've been out with work colleagues and ended up drunk again. Soay what you want to say here. I feel relaxed but also over conscious of how I performed in big groups. For instance it was a warm night and I think I smelt a bit sweaty despite using tons of deodorant. I worry others might have...

Does anyone here find people just aren't open to meeting a lot now a days? I want to meet new interesting people. Make new friends but I find many people seem to put up barriers. Is this a societal flaw? A lot of people then claim the world is unfriendly. I've become more open to meeting people...

Does anyone ever get to that point where they feel there is no light at the end of the tunnel?? I feel there is no end to my loneliness and it will end with me. Other times I'm more positive and working to do things about it. I'm in the process of using meetup.com for the first time to make...

Lately, I've taken to drinking alcohol. Often to quite an excess alone. Not many people want to talk to me. Even though I'm more confident then I have been. I'm finding it hard to socialise. I need a large circle of people to talk to which I just don't have. Ultimately, I'd love a gf to share...

Well, Today I noticed a Hot Belgian girl outside my station talking to another guy. I didn't know she was Belgian, until she came onto the platform. Started speaking about Flanders and that the guy could move to Belgium. Don't need to speak Dutch etc... We got on the Overground train not in the...

Take the test. I got this - http://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality It's amazingly close to how I am. Only a few details are off!! :)

Londoners. Ever had someone ask how can you be lonely in London? Simple, I find it the most loneliest place in the UK, I'll say Europe. Many of the people aren't approachable and people don't care for others as much as they should. People my age 26 are always out there frontin' to be be tough...

I think partly the reason why I can't make friends is that people have no depth of character. Today, I screwed up with one girl. Met her off okcupid but it was no real loss in reality. We got talking on 5th May. Heavy flirting and we connected so well. Never connected like that with a person...

I registered with another username in the past here. It's using the email account I want to change to! :( Can someone delete that account if I can PM it to them? Sorry for the mess up. I didn't realise I did that. Thank you,

Hey, Matthew 26 Been lonely for literally all of my 26 years. Never had a girlfriend/large circle of friends. Signed up here years ago but just decided to get involved now. Hey everyone :)