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When you've left your wife, ruined her and the kids' life's. And your new woman (who you work with) won't leave her husband.....
It's a bit honeysuckle really...
It's a bit honeysuckle really...
Minus said:I really have a hard time coming up with any sympathy for someone who is trying their best to destroy someones marriage.
VanillaCreme said:Not only wants to destroy someone else's marriage, BUT tore apart their own. I find it hard as well.
EveWasFramed said:Well, I hope he feels worse about destroying his family than the fact that he didnt get the other girl. :-s
Minus said:EveWasFramed said:Well, I hope he feels worse about destroying his family than the fact that he didnt get the other girl. :-s
You would hope so but then if you felt bad about what you did to your family, would you be so anxious to try to do the same to another family and complain because you weren't causing the degree of destruction that you intended?
IgnoredOne said:As they say, you don't exactly choose who you fall in love with.
nerdygirl said:IgnoredOne said:As they say, you don't exactly choose who you fall in love with.
I've never liked this notion. Of course we all have the option of not falling for somebody, unless you genuinely believe in love at first sight.
You spend time with this person. You realize you're attracted. This is your first sign it's time to get out. Say you told yourself, "attraction is no biggie". You keep spending time with the person. You realize the person is attracted to you, too. This is the second sign you have to get out. You still decide you can be just friends. You hang out. You realize your feelings are getting very warm for this person- you're not in love, but you know you've developed something more than attraction. This is your third chance to get out. If you do not get out, you cannot say, "It just happened." You have made a deliberate and conscious decision to continue down this path.
Minus said:"cut your losses"? When you are intentionally trying to destroy someone elses family you are so wrapped up in selfishness and self centeredness that maybe the problem is that you think about yourself too much and just maybe you should have some consideration for the people you are trying to hurt.
My name is Bob. said:There are 2 golden rules you must adhere to when having an affair with a married woman.
1) make sure her husband is not bigger than you, and is not a black belt in origami.
2) Don't get caught.
Stick to these 2 simple rules, and all will be A OK
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