LadyDaria
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I tend to have a recurring problem... I don't initiate friendships because I am too shy / terrified to target someone and try to make friends with them. With that, I also do have a bit of an issue even deciding who would be a good person to make friends with. It is very hard for me to "discriminate" among people. I tend to see them as all having value and all equal.
So typically I make friends only with those with the good taste to approach me. However, here is the thing... typically those with the good taste to approach me have something wrong with them. They will not turn out to be a good friend or fit for me... most typically because they have issues that caused them to reach out to me. Some people reach out to me because they feel bad for me. Some people reach out to me because they are lonely and reach out to everyone in the general area. Some people reach out to me because they think I am nice and they are looking for nice. Some reach out to me because they think I am the key to getting something.
But typically at the end of the day I find that those that are hard to get to get to know are usually the best friends. And those that are easy to get to know usually turn out to be problems. Why it seems maybe I am stuck with many "friends" that are anything but.
Anyone else have this problem?
So typically I make friends only with those with the good taste to approach me. However, here is the thing... typically those with the good taste to approach me have something wrong with them. They will not turn out to be a good friend or fit for me... most typically because they have issues that caused them to reach out to me. Some people reach out to me because they feel bad for me. Some people reach out to me because they are lonely and reach out to everyone in the general area. Some people reach out to me because they think I am nice and they are looking for nice. Some reach out to me because they think I am the key to getting something.
But typically at the end of the day I find that those that are hard to get to get to know are usually the best friends. And those that are easy to get to know usually turn out to be problems. Why it seems maybe I am stuck with many "friends" that are anything but.
Anyone else have this problem?