SighX99
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I just moved to a new area for college beginning of this year. I live off campus, don't have roommates and don't know where the parties at usually. I don't go clubbing or bars. I feel weird going to those places by myself. this girl just dumped me a month ago. I'm getting over it. but now I'm wondering, since I don't have a lot of friends, is that the problem? (i only have few friends in where I live, like barely 3 or 4. There are classmates and acquaintances but thats it. I've been here for almost 11months now and I still dont have a lot of friends. I think I have problem making friends because I would feel weird to get some dudes number to hangout, or actually hangout with friends. I don't know why. social anxiety probably.
But, when it comes to girls, does having a lot of friends matter? I'm starting to get over my ex... but now I'm wondering if that was the reason why she dumped me because all I do is hangout with her and like 2 friends. I just got over somebody and I really want a relationship to fill that void. so i turn to online dating. lets just say the experiences I have been having online isn't good. i get the dates, but... I dont want to sound conceited lets just say that I couldnt be physically attracted to the girls I met so far. pictures of themselves can only do so much. My sister hates the fact that I'm doing this. And I have been thinking, maybe I should focus on making friends instead of trying to get a girlfriend? Whats your thoughts? thanks.
But, when it comes to girls, does having a lot of friends matter? I'm starting to get over my ex... but now I'm wondering if that was the reason why she dumped me because all I do is hangout with her and like 2 friends. I just got over somebody and I really want a relationship to fill that void. so i turn to online dating. lets just say the experiences I have been having online isn't good. i get the dates, but... I dont want to sound conceited lets just say that I couldnt be physically attracted to the girls I met so far. pictures of themselves can only do so much. My sister hates the fact that I'm doing this. And I have been thinking, maybe I should focus on making friends instead of trying to get a girlfriend? Whats your thoughts? thanks.