Xpendable said:
Someone who does something of the caliber of sending a dick pic probably never saw the action as out of their comfort zone in the first place.
Shy person:
"I'm really nervous to talk with that person. I know, I'll send a picture of my genitals, that sounds a lot less expository".
You're arguing a FEELING. You can't tell someone they are not feeling something. So let's say someone does send a dick pic, they could still be shy in other aspects of life. There's a whole spectrum there. I don't even know why you're arguing this, it's perplexing.
Xpendable said:
False equivalence. Singing karaoke is not seen as morally reprehensible. While a dick pic would qualify as sexual harassment. A shy person would be less afraid to sing that to offend the law.
Okay, a shy person goes streaking. They can still be too shy to stand up and speak inront of class. Some of the most outgoing people I know have bouts of shyness, again, you're argueing an emotion which is odd. One shy person could never do anything that would be put them in the spotlight or in a bad light, but another one just might.
Xpendable said:
If someone does one thing that you may perceive as creepy, is the person creepy forever? or can they "un-creep" themselves?
You didn't answer my question, why? You just asked me another question. I'll answer that question when you answer mine.
Xpendable said:
Does Not correlate with the idea that shyness and creepiness are complementary. If you can't prove it, then is not evidence.
How can I prove what someone feels? You can do something bold and still be shy, you don't get to decide someone sending a dick pic can never feel shy in his life ever again.
Xpendable said:
And I'm arguing that what you perceive is not necessarily true of fair.
What? You have me lost. I said from the start "creep" is a feeling you get from someone, and any one of any age, looks etc can give you that feeling based on their actions. I don't associate shy people with being creeps.
I asociate pervert comments, long stares etc as being creepy, and anyone can be capable of doing that.
msbxa said:
Woah I really started up a conversation here. It is good though. Things that need to be thought about. Things I need to think as well and hear different perspectives to alter my perspectives.
I never do anything sexual. I'm more on the opposite end of the spectrum. Because I never do anything sexual or make sexual jokes. Can being on the other end of the extreme be considered creepy?
It seems like in today's society, people are doing all kinds of sexual things. Making sexual jokes. Talking about sexual things.
It amazes me that there are men that send dick pics. Like wtf? Do they actually get positive results after doing that? Where did this even come from, I never heard about men doing this sort of thing years ago.
I've never actually been called a creep, to my recall, ever in my life. But I sure feel like one sometimes when it seems people ignore me and shut me out just because I don't act like or like the same things or take the same image as everyone else.
Perhaps I am just too hard on myself.
I think you're being hard on yourself, I think you sound cute and sweet. I like when guys are shy, agressive men are unattactive.
Even if someone did think you're a creep or call you a creep. There's always going to be someone somewhere who has a negative thought about you. Can't please everyone, it matters more what you think of yourself. I've been called whack, weird, crazy. I am, but I love it and other people's opinions of me are non of my business.
Triple Bogey said:
Nobody who has met me as called me a creep. (To my face anyway)
Online, a few people after seeing my photograph have said I look creepy.
Which (a) isn't very ******* nice and (b) not ******* true !
That is so ******* rude, I hate the disconnect people have online, they would never say that in real life but feel compelled to do so online.