Among your family, do you ever feel that people had/have higher or lower expectations of you compared to others for whatever reason?
I have two older Brothers. As time has passed on, expectations of me not only by family, but by others seems to have gone up and up. My Mum doesn't seem to have achieved anything significant in her life. My oldest Brother as far as I know, never sat his exams in Secondary, or High School as it is known to people not of the UK. My second oldest Brother did his exams but didn't do so well. He went onto College but didn't do so well there either. As for me, I've always tried a little, if not a lot harder then them. As a result, if I do even remotely bad at something, it's like a massive crime. An example lies with work. My Mum hasn't worked for many many years. My second oldest Brother hasn't worked for a good few years. My oldest Brother hasn't been seen in years because he caused a lot of trouble in the local area. I don't work for less then three months and it's -OMG GET A JOB- from them. It can be very very annoying sometimes. Even stressful as I push myself to find work. That said, these pushes do help me to succeed where they have failed. So it is not all bad.
Peace out maaaan x]
I have two older Brothers. As time has passed on, expectations of me not only by family, but by others seems to have gone up and up. My Mum doesn't seem to have achieved anything significant in her life. My oldest Brother as far as I know, never sat his exams in Secondary, or High School as it is known to people not of the UK. My second oldest Brother did his exams but didn't do so well. He went onto College but didn't do so well there either. As for me, I've always tried a little, if not a lot harder then them. As a result, if I do even remotely bad at something, it's like a massive crime. An example lies with work. My Mum hasn't worked for many many years. My second oldest Brother hasn't worked for a good few years. My oldest Brother hasn't been seen in years because he caused a lot of trouble in the local area. I don't work for less then three months and it's -OMG GET A JOB- from them. It can be very very annoying sometimes. Even stressful as I push myself to find work. That said, these pushes do help me to succeed where they have failed. So it is not all bad.
Peace out maaaan x]