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Chasm

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could u plz share sum of ur methods 4 turning ppl down???
as in when they come on2 u?
i can do it online
np
LoL
but how do u handle this in REAL LIFE?
wont really go in2 details but?
the same methods i use online r NOT wrkng well in actual physical life
Lmao
:rolleyes:


i dnt really want 2 appear arrogant/harsh??
how 2 do this w/o seeming ^^^^^^^^ ?
 
im tryng 2 do that
its nt being takn very well
maybe i need 2 perfect the art
iv nvr bn able 2 do this in real life?
n it took me several yrs 2 evn learn how 2 do it online
THIS IS Y im askng 4 other ppls methods on how they do it
but judgng by the lack of responses?
LoL no1 else here knows how either
:rolleyes:
 
shrugs
ill just keep sayng fuq off
or
im "with" sum1
1 seems 2 ruff
the othr is a lie
LoL
obviously just as complex 4 ever1 else here
as is 4 me
mahaha
o well
 
humm.. talk like you type.
that`ll do it :p

Like Kamya said.
tell em youre not interested.
not that difficult.
put a sorry in there somewhere to make it less harsh.
if they dont get it, say it again, with a "Im really really sorry but... , ".
if they still dont get it try it one more time with a "seriously Im really sorry but... ,".

after that your "fuq off" or a "leave me alone" responce seems like an apropriate one.
cause by than i think you might have atracted a stalker.
 
Get a friend to "accidentally" hit them in the face with a basketball.
 
paulo said:
humm.. talk like you type.
that`ll do it :p

Like Kamya said.
tell em youre not interested.
not that difficult.
put a sorry in there somewhere to make it less harsh.
if they dont get it, say it again, with a "Im really really sorry but... , ".
if they still dont get it try it one more time with a "seriously Im really sorry but... ,".

after that your "fuq off" or a "leave me alone" responce seems like an apropriate one.
cause by than i think you might have atracted a stalker.
ok
evn tho theres an insult in here?
LoL
ty tho
its @ least givng me n idea of how ppl usually do this



Sci-Fi said:
Get a friend to "accidentally" hit them in the face with a basketball.
Lmao
gr8
then she'll cry
then ill end up obligng
mahaha
 
I don't know how old you are but you could say you're engaged or better yet....married. haha.

Ok so... you could say you dont want to date anyone right now. If they don't leave you alone.. might have to get a bit more specific and say I'm sorry but you are not my type. Better than fk off right? lol.
 
Chasm said:
Sci-Fi said:
Get a friend to "accidentally" hit them in the face with a basketball.
Lmao
gr8
then she'll cry
then ill end up obligng
mahaha

Well...yeah that will happen.

On a side note will someone please kill that **** spider...

 
Chasm said:
could u plz share sum of ur methods 4 turning ppl down???
as in when they come on2 u?
i can do it online
np
LoL
but how do u handle this in REAL LIFE?
wont really go in2 details but?
the same methods i use online r NOT wrkng well in actual physical life
Lmao
:rolleyes:


i dnt really want 2 appear arrogant/harsh??
how 2 do this w/o seeming ^^^^^^^^ ?

Your lucky people are coming on to you. Milk it for what you can then tell them to piss off.
 
cumulus.james said:
Chasm said:
could u plz share sum of ur methods 4 turning ppl down???
as in when they come on2 u?
i can do it online
np
LoL
but how do u handle this in REAL LIFE?
wont really go in2 details but?
the same methods i use online r NOT wrkng well in actual physical life
Lmao
:rolleyes:


i dnt really want 2 appear arrogant/harsh??
how 2 do this w/o seeming ^^^^^^^^ ?

Your lucky people are coming on to you. Milk it for what you can then tell them to piss off.
conscience would nevr go 4 that
but
uh?
thx?
LoL


plz
DO NOT
kill the spidr
!
i will put it outside
ty
no homicides in meh threads plz
LoL

all rite
so mayb
thats more of a?
arachnicide
u know wut i mean
 
Hmm, I don't usually have this problem but it has happened a few times. I don't know how to get out of this situation smoothly so for me, it's all about prevention. For example, if there's someone who I'm interested in or I think might be interested in me, I am cautious to not be too flirty or give off the wrong signals.
In the case that you are flat out, a sexy beast, and people approach you with romantic intentions automatically, then I have no idea what to tell you. Stop being so attractive? Get frowny? I really don't know.
Once I was like "Oh, I would go out but, I'm soooooo tired" and they were like "why?" and I was like "well, I took a lot of xanax earlier today." That worked.
 
paulo said:
LOL.. sorry about the insult :p
just teasing really.
LoL
its np



roguewave said:
Hmm, I don't usually have this problem but it has happened a few times. I don't know how to get out of this situation smoothly so for me, it's all about prevention. For example, if there's someone who I'm interested in or I think might be interested in me, I am cautious to not be too flirty or give off the wrong signals.
In the case that you are flat out, a sexy beast, and people approach you with romantic intentions automatically, then I have no idea what to tell you. Stop being so attractive? Get frowny? I really don't know.
Once I was like "Oh, I would go out but, I'm soooooo tired" and they were like "why?" and I was like "well, I took a lot of xanax earlier today." That worked.
Lmao @ xanax
if im "frowny" ppl want 2 know y
LoL
ty tho

 
If I know the person, I simply tell them we can be friends; and if I do not know the person, I tell them that I am not interested - It saves playing games.

If I like someone, they probably would not know it because I freeze up or try being friends with them first which is code for not having enough testicular fortitude to ask someone out.

Come to think about it, I have been asked out by women more times then I have asked out a women and probably why most of my relationships ended with someone cheating on me because they were more of the forward type.

At any rate, I have ended four "relationships" within three to eight weeks for one reason or another and flatly told them it was over in a nice way from 2007 to 2010 and moved on to my lonely life lifestyle because I refuse to settle for anyone.
 

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