I've been single most of my life. At the moment I'm having a frustrating argument on another forum with some grumpy old men who think I am "choosing to be a victim" etc (I'm sure you've all heard the whole script before). OK I can sit here and choose not to be a victim, but it's not going to make anybody marry me! However, the back door is open and the birds are singing - in the middle of a city.http://www.alonelylife.com/images/smilies/smile.gif