So i can deal with rejection. I can deal with disappointment. But i can't figure out how to be in the same room with someone i want to be with, and watch them flirt with someone else.. No I'm not a Jealous guy, no one else knows I'm uncomfortable but me, but it ruins my night, and it's not just like i can leave. This person's deep within my social circle.. The only advice i've been given sofar, was "deal with it like a man" so i got drunk... That helped for all of 16 hours.. I need long term closure. Explain to me how to remove someone from your head. Could it be possible to convince myself that their a horrible person? Cause than maybe i'd stop giving a honeysuckle and be content instead of feeling like I'm a heroin Junky 3 days into rehab all the time..