Badjedidude
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Lol thanks...I was starting to feel alone on here!
Someone should open a non-virgins thread, too!
----Steve
Someone should open a non-virgins thread, too!
----Steve
How many people over 20 are still virgins?
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packyourbags
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Badjedidude said:Lol thanks...I was starting to feel alone on here!
Someone should open a non-virgins thread, too!
----Steve
yeah, seriously
duality
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I've been reading every single post in this thread for about 2 hours now. I think everything has been said already. I, too, am a 22-year-old virgin, never kissed a girl, never really gone out on a real date, never had a girlfriend, but I've touched a girl's hand and cuddled with one before. And I think it's pathetic that I got my hopes up very easily when those happened. Like the other guys who posted, I also tend to get obsessed on someone who shows the slightest interest in me, unless I'm not attracted to that girl. And yes, I've seen naked girls before, but they were strippers. And I didn't really get horny; I was actually bored, for some reason.
Well, that's all I have to say for now, since many of the things I want to vent out has already been said.
And I didn't really get horny; I was actually bored, for some reason.Well, that's all I have to say for now, since many of the things I want to vent out has already been said.
Bouncing_Soul
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duality said:I've been reading every single post in this thread for about 2 hours now. I think everything has been said already. I, too, am a 22-year-old virgin, never kissed a girl, never really gone out on a real date, never had a girlfriend, but I've touched a girl's hand and cuddled with one before. And I think it's pathetic that I got my hopes up very easily when those happened. Like the other guys who posted, I also tend to get obsessed on someone who shows the slightest interest in me, unless I'm not attracted to that girl. And yes, I've seen naked girls before, but they were strippers.
Well, that's all I have to say for now, since many of the things I want to vent out has already been said.
At least you've had the experiance of hand holding and cuddling. Those are better signs that a girl has feelings for you then sex. I'm going to be 25 and I'm not a virgin but I'd choose those two things over getting "laid." especially right now as I sit here in the morning lonely.
Badjedidude
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I agree. Right now, having sex would be awesome for me! But...
...I feel like I'd almost rather just spend time walking around holding hands with a woman. I miss the sex I had when I was with my ex, but even more I miss the little things like just holding hands or putting my arm around her waist...just close intimacy, things like that. I also agree with you, Bouncing_Soul, that these things measure a woman's feelings toward you better than sex. Any drunk, horny chick could have sex with a dude...but to hold hands or something is a bit more profound and specific an action. A girl HAS to like you to do that.
----Steve
...I feel like I'd almost rather just spend time walking around holding hands with a woman. I miss the sex I had when I was with my ex, but even more I miss the little things like just holding hands or putting my arm around her waist...just close intimacy, things like that. I also agree with you, Bouncing_Soul, that these things measure a woman's feelings toward you better than sex. Any drunk, horny chick could have sex with a dude...but to hold hands or something is a bit more profound and specific an action. A girl HAS to like you to do that.
----Steve
I agree with that too although I'm a virgin still. I'd rather experience a meaningful kiss or something else that makes you know that person cares about you. But hey at least you all have experienced something so be happy you have done something. Where as me I'm in the very exclusive club of ugly losers who haven't experienced anything.
packyourbags
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Remedy said:
you are not ugly, and you are not a loser X(
you are a great person, and you will find someone that will appreciate you as you deserve.
Badjedidude
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Agreed.
Sorry that was stupid of me and I was just posting when I was feeling bitter. We all experience our feelings of lonliness and nobody has it as well as we think they do. It's just to many people in america view sex and having that significant someone as something we should all have.And without it people seem to be deemed as losers in our society so its just hard to not feel that way. But I am trying to have a more positive outlook on things.
Badjedidude
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No, I agree with you...society is definitely constructed to view coupled individuals as being successful or even "better"...it IS hard sometimes to be single and think it's OK.
Just don't let it chew at you too much. Set a goal to be with someone, but don't measure yourself as a failure in life if you don't achieve that goal.
----Steve
Just don't let it chew at you too much. Set a goal to be with someone, but don't measure yourself as a failure in life if you don't achieve that goal.
----Steve
DysphoricMuse
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I wouldnt despair if I were you, you're a virgin because you choose to be. Sex is not hard to come by, you could go out and in an hour or less bring somebody back to your home and have sex with them....They may be grossly overweight, cracked out and STD infested...but you could do it, without paying even. But you don't because that would be gross, at least you have standards. Anyone can get laid, it's not hard and takes no effort.
Badjedidude
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Haha, hey, those people need love, too!
----Steve
packyourbags
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Badjedidude said:
Haha, hey, those people need love, too!
----Steve
LOL XD
DysphoricMuse said:
I think you have a point. But you know sometimes standards are what keeps people virgin. I think there are probably many people with very poor standards that prevent them from finding a significant other, and the only way to lose their virginity is to either destroy their own standards of a significant other or result to prostitution. Why else would prostitution be so profitable if every guy and girl and find the perfect someone? And I also bet there's probably many people that have died virgins because they wouldn't let go of their standards.
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Male virgins over 20..mainly because women today disregard any guy that isn't attractive enough, rich enough, or educated enough.
And the women here posting to the guys,
"Oh one day you will find someone"...
Yet, not a **** one of them is probably willing to befriend any of these lonely guys.
I don't know much much more hypocrisy I can stand.
Dr. Morlenheim
And the women here posting to the guys,
"Oh one day you will find someone"...
Yet, not a **** one of them is probably willing to befriend any of these lonely guys.
I don't know much much more hypocrisy I can stand.
Dr. Morlenheim
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cheaptrickfan
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DrMorlenheim said:
Please, I don't know how much more of your misogyny I can stand. Unattractive, lonely women have it just as hard as unattractive, lonely men.
Listen close, because I'm only going to say this once: There is no female conspiracy designed to emasculate lonely men and make them feel as though they're ogres.
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SophiaGrace
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DrMorlenheim said:
This is definitely the way a person with a PHD actually studying loneliness would approach this. (heavy sarcasm). Very professional.
Btw, found your Youtube Channel.
http://www.youtube.com/user/MaleLonelinessSyndro#p/u
Really dislike the language used in this video:
Heavily Misogynistic. Real scientific studies are double blinded so that there arent any possible third variables and they definitely wouldnt use misogynistic language to explain any results they'd get. Sorry to put a pin-prick in your little experiment "doctor".
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cheaptrickfan
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SophiaGrace said:
What the heck is up with the computer-processed voice on the video?
And referring to the video content, FTR, I'll give directions to anyone who asks me where to find something in the grocery store, but since I've usually got two kids in tow, I'm not "escorting" anyone to the item, no, not even if he looked like Brad Pitt.
Also, the language he uses in the video is extremely unscientific.
SophiaGrace said:
For a treat, do a search on the name Morlenheim and check out the comments someone using this name is leaving about internet dating and the plight of men.
