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SophiaGrace
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I'm just speaking my thoughts aloud in a very emotionally honest way. I felt the need to talk about what's been going on with me. Please don't do the whole "tough love" thing on me. Seriously. Just pass this thread on if you're going to "tell me things I don't want to hear". I tear myself down enough as it is.
I've been having a hard time lately. I mean, i guess I feel like I always have a hard time. But it's been a struggle not to tear myself to bits these last few months, a struggle not to conceptualize myself as being worthless. A struggle to try and bolster my sense of self-efficacy. That I can do things, that I am worthwhile as a person to talk to and be friends with. That I am worthwhile period, instead of worthless. Trying to change my self concept of myself...
Trying not to cry here. Not succeeding. Crying for the 3rd or 4th time since i've gotten back to college.
I can, I can...but I need other people to believe in me. Don't give me that look of doubt, don't turn me away as not worthwhile to work with. If you do this i will only fulfill your own expectations of me as being not capable. Can't you see that? Why don't you understand that? Why? Why....?
I'm trying not to let it hurt me so much. Does everyone walk around every day feeling like they are worthless when they don't measure up to their own expectations?
This is what I am fighting.
Why do I do this to myself? Why does my brain conceptualize the world like this? Is it youth? The price of dreams? Why can't I let go of my expectations of myself? Why must i have these dreams that I must fulfill? I am so black and white. One or the other. Awesome, or nothing. I must. I must. I must fulfill my dreams. There is no other way.
ok I'm going to try to do homework now...
I've been having a hard time lately. I mean, i guess I feel like I always have a hard time. But it's been a struggle not to tear myself to bits these last few months, a struggle not to conceptualize myself as being worthless. A struggle to try and bolster my sense of self-efficacy. That I can do things, that I am worthwhile as a person to talk to and be friends with. That I am worthwhile period, instead of worthless. Trying to change my self concept of myself...
Trying not to cry here. Not succeeding. Crying for the 3rd or 4th time since i've gotten back to college.
I can, I can...but I need other people to believe in me. Don't give me that look of doubt, don't turn me away as not worthwhile to work with. If you do this i will only fulfill your own expectations of me as being not capable. Can't you see that? Why don't you understand that? Why? Why....?
I'm trying not to let it hurt me so much. Does everyone walk around every day feeling like they are worthless when they don't measure up to their own expectations?
This is what I am fighting.
Why do I do this to myself? Why does my brain conceptualize the world like this? Is it youth? The price of dreams? Why can't I let go of my expectations of myself? Why must i have these dreams that I must fulfill? I am so black and white. One or the other. Awesome, or nothing. I must. I must. I must fulfill my dreams. There is no other way.
ok I'm going to try to do homework now...