GrayAndLonesome
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Hey fellow ALL people. It's been a while since I last came here to post.
Well, I'm down and depressed because finding a girlfriend has been a challenge for me for the last five months.
I recently moved to another state, far away from home, for a job opportunity.
I was paired up with a girl back in August, with a lady who knows the girl, from one of her friends. Well, if you've read that old thread of mine, she ended up telling me "hey, I'm in interested" in her text message.
Fast forward to about a month ago in mid October, where my mom asked one of her friends here in my area to pair me up with a single girl. That lady happened to know a girl who lives about 20 miles away from me. However, her English skill is not good because she's from Korea. The lady gave me her phone number and we've chatted one the phone, although my Korean language skill is not fluent. To make a long story short, we met up at a coffee shop, chatted for two hours, and then parted ways. I then sent her a text message thanking her for meeting up with me. She responded thanks as well. Three days later, I sent her a message asking how her day was, and bam, no response at all from her! I then called up my mother, who then called the other lady who paired me up with the girl, asking her why she was not responding to my text messages. about six hours later, the girl responds to my text message and told me that she is busy with school her church, etc. A week later, I sent her a text message, and no response. I then assume that she was not interested in me.
I also visited home last month, where my mother also happened to find another girl there for me. This was one of her hair salon clients. I was gung-ho and quite happy that she found someone for me. On the day that we were supposed to meet up with the girl, she did not show up at the promised time. My mom then called the girl up and the girl said that she was sorry and was on her way. This was already 20 minutes past the scheduled/promised time. I was really pissed off, and my opinion of the girl plumetted, because if she was responsible, she would have showed up on time. When the girl came into my mom's shop, she apologized, but to me, I wasn't buying it. She also didn't seem like a talkative person, rather, more the shy person, who didn't even bat an eye at me. Mom told us to go have coffee. So we both walked to a nearby coffee shop to chat for only an hour. The girl then told me that she had to go to meet up with her friend to go to a night concert. She didn't seem too interested in me, and neither was I. So another failure incident with that girl.
Fast forward to now, I have signed up for internet dating sites, such as Match.com and Asianfriendfinder. I have been using match.com for about three weeks. No luck at all. Plus there is a lot of discrimination on dating site, which is why my chances of finding a girl is very very slim.
I only met one girl from Match.com, and she was "thick" and her face was bigger than her snapshop that she had in her profile picture. Asianfriendfinder was full of scam artists from Nigeria, sending me messages, and I could tell they were scam. Even one of them called me on my cell phone, only to have my caller ID tell me the phone number is from Nigeria. LOL! I just recently cancelled my subscription with them.
I don't know guys............ I think I have bad luck, or some kind of honeysuckle written on my forehead, or there must be a bad-luck dating bubble surrounding me, because a lot of my friends, cousins, and sister are married. My sister already popped out her 2nd child this past July.
My friend bryce just had his first child in May.
Me? Sh-t! I'm still single, and really really getting upset.
Well, I'm down and depressed because finding a girlfriend has been a challenge for me for the last five months.
I recently moved to another state, far away from home, for a job opportunity.
I was paired up with a girl back in August, with a lady who knows the girl, from one of her friends. Well, if you've read that old thread of mine, she ended up telling me "hey, I'm in interested" in her text message.
Fast forward to about a month ago in mid October, where my mom asked one of her friends here in my area to pair me up with a single girl. That lady happened to know a girl who lives about 20 miles away from me. However, her English skill is not good because she's from Korea. The lady gave me her phone number and we've chatted one the phone, although my Korean language skill is not fluent. To make a long story short, we met up at a coffee shop, chatted for two hours, and then parted ways. I then sent her a text message thanking her for meeting up with me. She responded thanks as well. Three days later, I sent her a message asking how her day was, and bam, no response at all from her! I then called up my mother, who then called the other lady who paired me up with the girl, asking her why she was not responding to my text messages. about six hours later, the girl responds to my text message and told me that she is busy with school her church, etc. A week later, I sent her a text message, and no response. I then assume that she was not interested in me.
I also visited home last month, where my mother also happened to find another girl there for me. This was one of her hair salon clients. I was gung-ho and quite happy that she found someone for me. On the day that we were supposed to meet up with the girl, she did not show up at the promised time. My mom then called the girl up and the girl said that she was sorry and was on her way. This was already 20 minutes past the scheduled/promised time. I was really pissed off, and my opinion of the girl plumetted, because if she was responsible, she would have showed up on time. When the girl came into my mom's shop, she apologized, but to me, I wasn't buying it. She also didn't seem like a talkative person, rather, more the shy person, who didn't even bat an eye at me. Mom told us to go have coffee. So we both walked to a nearby coffee shop to chat for only an hour. The girl then told me that she had to go to meet up with her friend to go to a night concert. She didn't seem too interested in me, and neither was I. So another failure incident with that girl.
Fast forward to now, I have signed up for internet dating sites, such as Match.com and Asianfriendfinder. I have been using match.com for about three weeks. No luck at all. Plus there is a lot of discrimination on dating site, which is why my chances of finding a girl is very very slim.
I only met one girl from Match.com, and she was "thick" and her face was bigger than her snapshop that she had in her profile picture. Asianfriendfinder was full of scam artists from Nigeria, sending me messages, and I could tell they were scam. Even one of them called me on my cell phone, only to have my caller ID tell me the phone number is from Nigeria. LOL! I just recently cancelled my subscription with them.
I don't know guys............ I think I have bad luck, or some kind of honeysuckle written on my forehead, or there must be a bad-luck dating bubble surrounding me, because a lot of my friends, cousins, and sister are married. My sister already popped out her 2nd child this past July.
My friend bryce just had his first child in May.
Me? Sh-t! I'm still single, and really really getting upset.