ITellYouHhwut
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Okay, so I’m one of those guys who can’t get women. I basically have no chances with women unless an absolute miracle happens and I get lucky with the right situation. Too many problems intersecting with me that cause my chances of getting a woman extreeeeemely low.
But over the past couple months I’ve been talking to this girl who works in this sandwich shop that I frequent.
Long story short, I mustered up the courage to ask her out two days ago, and surprisingly she said yes she would like to go out sometime. I asked for her number, and she gave it to me.
I was very proud of myself for at least stepping up to the plate for once in my life. I was thinking I had finally caught a lucky break in life, and was hoping this would work out, because I know that it would take another eternity and miracle for me to “get lucky” again and find a girl of this quality that isn’t either taken or uninterested.
So now for the bad ending to this story that I knew from the outset was inevitable. I waited until two days after initially asking her out before I sent her a message. Last night at about 6 o’clock I sent her a text asking her out to a local fair next week. It’s now 2:47pm the next day and she still has not replied. I think it’s safe to say now that she’s blowing me off.
I don’t plan to send her any more messages. If she doesn’t respond to that one, that’s it. I’m not contacting her again.
Do you think that’s the right route to take? I mean it sucks, because most of you will be speaking from a perspective of “well, if she’s blowing you off, then forget her. There’s other fish out there.” But for me, there aren’t other fish. I have to do my best to harness the extremely rare opportunities I get. I would even venture to say that this could very well be the only opportunity I ever get in my life. But again, I’m not going to continue to message her and beg like a loser. Should I just forget it, say sorry I ever ever thought it was possible for me, and just go back to my life?
But over the past couple months I’ve been talking to this girl who works in this sandwich shop that I frequent.
Long story short, I mustered up the courage to ask her out two days ago, and surprisingly she said yes she would like to go out sometime. I asked for her number, and she gave it to me.
I was very proud of myself for at least stepping up to the plate for once in my life. I was thinking I had finally caught a lucky break in life, and was hoping this would work out, because I know that it would take another eternity and miracle for me to “get lucky” again and find a girl of this quality that isn’t either taken or uninterested.
So now for the bad ending to this story that I knew from the outset was inevitable. I waited until two days after initially asking her out before I sent her a message. Last night at about 6 o’clock I sent her a text asking her out to a local fair next week. It’s now 2:47pm the next day and she still has not replied. I think it’s safe to say now that she’s blowing me off.
I don’t plan to send her any more messages. If she doesn’t respond to that one, that’s it. I’m not contacting her again.
Do you think that’s the right route to take? I mean it sucks, because most of you will be speaking from a perspective of “well, if she’s blowing you off, then forget her. There’s other fish out there.” But for me, there aren’t other fish. I have to do my best to harness the extremely rare opportunities I get. I would even venture to say that this could very well be the only opportunity I ever get in my life. But again, I’m not going to continue to message her and beg like a loser. Should I just forget it, say sorry I ever ever thought it was possible for me, and just go back to my life?