Restless soul
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Simple title so I will try to get right to the point.
I know there is already a thread on here. But its buried.
Ok, so I got sucked into the subredit called 'no fap'
And I have to say it has a cult like atmosphere. I mean you have people saying all sorts of weird honeysuckle on there claiming it changed thier lives from abstaining from masterbation. You got some claiming they have not masterbated in a year??
Are you serious?
To me these people are either
A. Asexuals
B. On serious meds that killed their sex drive completey
C. Eunuchs
Now where do I come in? So I took it upon myself even before I discovered nofap subredit was to dial back my masterbation habits. Just because it was time consuming and I can see how it can prevent one from seeking out actual women. So speaking as a male in his 30s who is struggling to meet women and fulfill those sexual needs. I ask the experts here on this forum. What are the benefits from someone like me. A very frustrated individual from going for long periods of not masterbating. Someone who already cut back. Someone who used to do it multiple times a day with or without porn. To now once a month?
And all I see from going without it once a month is....
Being even more sexually frustrated. Didnt see many benefits from not even doing it. How can there be such damage if only once a month? I am wondering? And do believe these people who say rhey go a year without it? Why are they better than someone doing it seldom. I can't imagine they are not going out of their heads. Almost seems unthinkable. And can have adverse affects. Please tell me. What you think??
I know there is already a thread on here. But its buried.
Ok, so I got sucked into the subredit called 'no fap'
And I have to say it has a cult like atmosphere. I mean you have people saying all sorts of weird honeysuckle on there claiming it changed thier lives from abstaining from masterbation. You got some claiming they have not masterbated in a year??
Are you serious?
To me these people are either
A. Asexuals
B. On serious meds that killed their sex drive completey
C. Eunuchs
Now where do I come in? So I took it upon myself even before I discovered nofap subredit was to dial back my masterbation habits. Just because it was time consuming and I can see how it can prevent one from seeking out actual women. So speaking as a male in his 30s who is struggling to meet women and fulfill those sexual needs. I ask the experts here on this forum. What are the benefits from someone like me. A very frustrated individual from going for long periods of not masterbating. Someone who already cut back. Someone who used to do it multiple times a day with or without porn. To now once a month?
And all I see from going without it once a month is....
Being even more sexually frustrated. Didnt see many benefits from not even doing it. How can there be such damage if only once a month? I am wondering? And do believe these people who say rhey go a year without it? Why are they better than someone doing it seldom. I can't imagine they are not going out of their heads. Almost seems unthinkable. And can have adverse affects. Please tell me. What you think??