Recently, I have been feeling extremely depressed, it seems to be getting worse and worse as the days go on. I've struggled with these feelings of loneliness, worthlessness, absolutely despise my life and who I am etc etc for majority of my life. It doesn't make sense, I've always had a great family there for me, and great friends.
I was picked on pretty much all throughout school, so my whole life basically. I've also been ignored by girls, which I believe is the main cause of all of this bullshit. It's so ******* frustrating, I don't know if it's because I'm ugly (even though I don't really consider myself to be THAT ugly) or if it's my personality (even though I can have lots of fun with people) or what, but it's so degrading.
I'm 24, I have a shitty job and I live at home. I feel like an enormous failure. A few months ago my first serious relationship EVER ended. It was mutual at the time, but now I would kill to have that back because I feel unbearably meaningless.
So to the point, before this gets too long. I would never commit suicide even though I would love to, I have too many people in my life who care for me (though I don't understand why) but I couldn't do that to them. But quite frequently (pretty much every day), I tell myself that I hope I get into a car accident on the way to work, or a truck hits me in the parking lot, or I randomly have a heart attack... death seems like such a release but I could never do it to myself, so I hope and pray that it happens externally. When I think about this, I'm absolutely horrified... a living being should never feel like this, it contradicts the fundamental strive for survival... so this brings me to my question...
Should I go see a doctor? I feel like I really need to, but would anti depressants even help? or would the side effects make everything worse? or would the dependency on them be bad for me? Any input would be much appreciated. I'm really worried that these thoughts of death will manifest into actual fantasies of suicide, which will manifest into attempts and I don't want that to happen...
I was picked on pretty much all throughout school, so my whole life basically. I've also been ignored by girls, which I believe is the main cause of all of this bullshit. It's so ******* frustrating, I don't know if it's because I'm ugly (even though I don't really consider myself to be THAT ugly) or if it's my personality (even though I can have lots of fun with people) or what, but it's so degrading.
I'm 24, I have a shitty job and I live at home. I feel like an enormous failure. A few months ago my first serious relationship EVER ended. It was mutual at the time, but now I would kill to have that back because I feel unbearably meaningless.
So to the point, before this gets too long. I would never commit suicide even though I would love to, I have too many people in my life who care for me (though I don't understand why) but I couldn't do that to them. But quite frequently (pretty much every day), I tell myself that I hope I get into a car accident on the way to work, or a truck hits me in the parking lot, or I randomly have a heart attack... death seems like such a release but I could never do it to myself, so I hope and pray that it happens externally. When I think about this, I'm absolutely horrified... a living being should never feel like this, it contradicts the fundamental strive for survival... so this brings me to my question...
Should I go see a doctor? I feel like I really need to, but would anti depressants even help? or would the side effects make everything worse? or would the dependency on them be bad for me? Any input would be much appreciated. I'm really worried that these thoughts of death will manifest into actual fantasies of suicide, which will manifest into attempts and I don't want that to happen...