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Well, if you want to keep a relationshp alive. You cant just focus on good sex. Doing this will surely damage or effect other areas in the relationship that truly requires more attention than just sex.

So if your just focused on getting your penis in top shape all the time, then you'll never really get to the point of even having the chance to use it because you've been neglecting the very process to find someone to mate with. Just because your too worried that your tool is not up to shape. JUST USE WHAT YOU GOT AND GO GET SOME!
 
Hi everyone! I am OP. I can't remember password for life of me, and can't retrieve new pass as my school emailed expired. Anyway I am still having this anxiety over my small penis. I am thinking of posting pictures on facebook so everyone will judge.
 
That's a good way to have your facebook account banned. They have a no nudity clause.
 
If you're THAT intent on finding other peoples' opinions, I'm sure there's a reddit or forum out there for that. A quick google search will show you the way.
 
supra935 said:
Hi everyone! I am OP. I can't remember password for life of me, and can't retrieve new pass as my school emailed expired. Anyway I am still having this anxiety over my small penis. I am thinking of posting pictures on facebook so everyone will judge.

I'm no penis expert but I'll take a look.
 
I don't think men need to worry about penis size when it comes to sex with women. If it gets hard at the right time and stays that way for a while, your woman will be pleased. Penetration isn't the only way to have sex. Just my opinion of course.
 
If you have had sexual partners in the past and no-one has said anything, I don't think you should worry.
I don't understand why men think having a huge penis is one of life's greatest achievements, being someone that benefits (right word to use?) from the size of a man's penis I can tell you big ones make me scan the room for the nearest exit.
No one wants to have sex and end up on dialysis! Anyways the point of my post is, don't agonise over something you can't change and just try and find someone that you love and trust, who isn't a size queen but loves you for you and not what you're packing!
 
Littlesecret said:
I don't understand why men think having a huge penis is one of life's greatest achievements, being someone that benefits (right word to use?) from the size of a man's penis I can tell you big ones make me scan the room for the nearest exit.
No one wants to have sex and end up on a dialysis! Anyways the point of my post is, don't agonise over something you can't change and just try and find someone that you love and trust, who isn't a size queen but loves you for you and not what you're packing!

I agree with and support your post, LS.

I do, however, have a female friend who had a relationship with a guy who was barely three inches in the penile area. My friend is a very sexually adventurous person in bed, (so I am told,) and she would talk to me about how great her boyfriend is, except for the sex. She would ask me for advice, and I'd tell her that the main thing is that she loves him. Sex is great, but if you love a person, length doesn't matter. Pleasure matters, and there are ways to make sex pleasurable no matter what the penis size.

They eventually broke up due to issues that had nothing to do with the sex, though.

I'm thankful that I've never had penis envy. I can understand why some guys would have it, because it is central to a man's sense of his own masculinity in the same way that women will often see magazine ads of anorexic models and think that this is a normal body type. It's not.

The ideal is to aim for loving ourselves for who we are, no matter what society tells us is the norm.
 
I really am insecure about this. To be clear I've had probably over 40-45 sexual partners and a few have said it was rather small. PM me if you will take a look. I can take a picture with quarters or something on it, or find a ruler. It's probably just normal, I'm not sure. Ugh!
 
Please don't do that here this is not that type of forum. If you want input that badly go to rating sites and ask around.

As a warning to all as well, if you do not know the person and do not know their age DO NOT send or accept explicit, nude, or pictures of their genitals. Sending and receiving suck pictures of someone who may be underage is classed as child pornography and you can be prosecuted for sending or being in possession of it.
 
supra934 said:
This seems to be one of my biggest sources of low self esteem. I've been with over 10 partners and no one has complained but I know that my equipment does not live up to standards. I try to go on aim chatrooms and see if random strangers would give me brutally honest opinions on webcam...but I find that no one is really into that lol. I really just dont know what to do about this :(

At least you've had partners.
 
Well to be honest, size DOES matter.

It matters to the "tighter" woman who can't take an above average or larger penis.

It matters to the "looser" woman who can't feel anything under average.

It's really different strokes for different folks... we should all stop being so insecure about our dick sizes, it's a socially induced feeling that no man on earth should have (American pop culture seems to love emasculating men and making women feel ugly) .

I mean as a straight male, I prefer smaller to medium size breasts on a woman, some guys love huge breasts..I'm really more of an ass guy though to be honest. But do you guys get what I mean?
 
misterpete said:
Well to be honest, size DOES matter.

It matters to the "tighter" woman who can't take an above average or larger penis.

It matters to the "looser" woman who can't feel anything under average.

It's really different strokes for different folks... we should all stop being so insecure about our dick sizes, it's a socially induced feeling that no man on earth should have (American pop culture seems to love emasculating men and making women feel ugly) .

I mean as a straight male, I prefer smaller to medium size breasts on a woman, some guys love huge breasts..I'm really more of an ass guy though to be honest. But do you guys get what I mean?


Yup. I know exactly what you mean.
 
misterpete said:
Well to be honest, size DOES matter.

It matters to the "tighter" woman who can't take an above average or larger penis.

It matters to the "looser" woman who can't feel anything under average.


You really think this is true?

You need to read up on the magical stretchy properties of the vagina my dear fellow!
 
There's a gazillion replies here so I'm not sure you'll get this, but I hope you do and IM VERY SERIOUS WHEN I SAY THIS, I got nothing to shout about down there not in any way but like Trevor says in GTA V it gets the job done. Honestly the kind of girl that's after a yard is most likely only after a one nighter anyway so why bother unless you're after a one nighter yourself, ( if that's the case get a hooker it's cheaper than a whole night of drinks with a girl who can hold her liquoir lol) joke btw. Really though when it comes to love over lust that girl will want you to take your time and hit all the spots, that's where times your friend. Hold back and show her that you can hit home runs every time all the time, know what I'm saying?

Ps I used American innuendos if you're not from there just replace that with your countries sport that's similar;) good luck lad! And if my advice was good call your first kid Andy J lol
 
To the OP alot of people are overly concerned with this and i think people have given you some good advice throughout the thread. Believe it or not theres actually penis comparison sites on the web to allay peoples fears now. I wont post one here because i dont want to get banned lol. But if you google penis comparison site you can find one. I found this from watching a sex talk show once and they were talking about this. its a very common worry for men. I used to worry about it too, i think all guys do at one point and women about their bodies its natural to wonder how you compare. Theres also breast comparison sites as well.

But the main thing to remember is if the parts work and youre healthy and you can enjoy sex than thats GOOD ENOUGH. There is no perfect or "right size" so go look for those sites it may help you not feel so bad, but please dont post pictures like that on facebook im sure your grandma and your relatives dont wanna see all that......lol.
 
shadetree said:
To the OP alot of people are overly concerned with this and i think people have given you some good advice throughout the thread. Believe it or not theres actually penis comparison sites on the web to allay peoples fears now. I wont post one here because i dont want to get banned lol. But if you google penis comparison site you can find one. I found this from watching a sex talk show once and they were talking about this. its a very common worry for men. I used to worry about it too, i think all guys do at one point and women about their bodies its natural to wonder how you compare. Theres also breast comparison sites as well.

But the main thing to remember is if the parts work and youre healthy and you can enjoy sex than thats GOOD ENOUGH. There is no perfect or "right size" so go look for those sites it may help you not feel so bad, but please dont post pictures like that on facebook im sure your grandma and your relatives dont wanna see all that......lol.

This guy is talking sense here, not sure I'd be going to comparison sites myself but if that's what you wanna do I'm not judging lol ;). Thing that matters most is the woman you're with, if she's happy in the bedroom you're obviously making her happy if not then up your game and make her happy, honestly that's the most important part really 75% of my happiness in the bedroom is knowing I'm making the other person happy, you know what I'm saying here lol. And im no Ron Jeremy lol just ask what she likes its not like she'll be angry cuz you want to get her off :)
 
Alma lost her spoon said:
misterpete said:
Well to be honest, size DOES matter.

It matters to the "tighter" woman who can't take an above average or larger penis.

It matters to the "looser" woman who can't feel anything under average.


You really think this is true?

You need to read up on the magical stretchy properties of the vagina my dear fellow!

http://www.sacred-texts.com/sex/kama/kama201.htm

a hare and an elephant together won't have much fun, while a horse might hurt a deer

also, maybe a hare with intense passion can make up for it? the text doesn't explain that clearly

(it's an ancient text, mind you)

the key point is, there is a suitable size for everyone
 
Peaches said:
Alma lost her spoon said:
misterpete said:
Well to be honest, size DOES matter.

It matters to the "tighter" woman who can't take an above average or larger penis.

It matters to the "looser" woman who can't feel anything under average.


You really think this is true?

You need to read up on the magical stretchy properties of the vagina my dear fellow!

http://www.sacred-texts.com/sex/kama/kama201.htm

a hare and an elephant together won't have much fun, while a horse might hurt a deer

also, maybe a hare with intense passion can make up for it? the text doesn't explain that

(it's an ancient text, mind you)

A deer with intense passion for a horse perchance.....although I'm not really into the whole interspecies thing.
 

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