I live in a two-bedroom apartment. I am male and my apartment-mate is a female. She has a boyfriend and invites him several times a week and sometimes he sleeps over. We are in separate rooms, and I usually don't hear anything that bothers me, however, the fact that he is over so often is a little frustrating, although I can't figure out exactly why. I like peace, and his presence just makes me uneasy. I'm not attracted to the girl at all, and I don't know either the girl nor her boyfriend that well because I just moved in two weeks ago.
Is it unreasonable of me to feel frustrated that she has her boyfriend over? And what should I do to ask the boyfriend to limit his coming to our apartment and still remain in good relations? Can I ask her to at least ask me if can come before he comes? Or, can I tell her that I'm not comfortable with having frequent guests?
Thanks,
Wrath
Is it unreasonable of me to feel frustrated that she has her boyfriend over? And what should I do to ask the boyfriend to limit his coming to our apartment and still remain in good relations? Can I ask her to at least ask me if can come before he comes? Or, can I tell her that I'm not comfortable with having frequent guests?
Thanks,
Wrath