My grandmother hasn't been doing well this past year. About 7 years ago we had to put her into a home, she's deaf and was falling asleep in her recliner when she was cooking or running water. She didn't like it at first, really didn't like it, but after a few years she accepted her life there and actually came to like living in a rest home. Last year she had a spell and ended up having to be in a wheelchair for a bit. She didn't like that and would fight it, she ended up twisting up her feet and now is permanently stuck in a wheelchair. She had a laps in memory as well, she kept thinking my mother (the oldest) was her sister or someone else. It was really hard to see her like that. She came out of it and remembers it all.
This year she's had several strokes, and even though the nurses at the rest home thought she might not make it through the night she did. I've lost count how many she's had a stroke. I don't get to see her often since I'm only home on weekends, and really I don't want to with the conditions she's in. She's become very frail and can't remember things, or talks about the same subject. She really likes to talk about the past when all us grand kids were younger.
Just this past weekend my Aunt called my mom pretty late at night to let her know that my grandmother had yet another stroke. The real sad part is that my grandmother wants to go, she's said herself she's lived a long life and it's time. We'll probably go see her this weekend since it's getting close to Christmas, my mom will probably buy her socks again, my grandmother likes getting them. My mom buys her good ones to help keep her feet warm. It's just getting harder to see her like she is, her face lights up when she sees my brother and I, so far she's always remembered who we are.
Sorry if this has been so sad, I just needed to get it out.
This year she's had several strokes, and even though the nurses at the rest home thought she might not make it through the night she did. I've lost count how many she's had a stroke. I don't get to see her often since I'm only home on weekends, and really I don't want to with the conditions she's in. She's become very frail and can't remember things, or talks about the same subject. She really likes to talk about the past when all us grand kids were younger.
Just this past weekend my Aunt called my mom pretty late at night to let her know that my grandmother had yet another stroke. The real sad part is that my grandmother wants to go, she's said herself she's lived a long life and it's time. We'll probably go see her this weekend since it's getting close to Christmas, my mom will probably buy her socks again, my grandmother likes getting them. My mom buys her good ones to help keep her feet warm. It's just getting harder to see her like she is, her face lights up when she sees my brother and I, so far she's always remembered who we are.
Sorry if this has been so sad, I just needed to get it out.