In a lonely place
Well-known member
I'd like to ask members there opinion of a situation recently in which I must have got the wrong idea about signals a woman was giving out.
When a woman smiles A LOT at people, what does it signify?
That she is happy most of you will say probably, but perhaps I haven't explained it properly. When a women smiles (really smiles, wide grin, wide eyes, open expression) yes,often and to many people, it's a very welcoming and alluring, I might say sexy thing. When she is pleasant and friendly to everyone to a man anyway, it is. To a woman? I don't know. I'm not a woman.
Now, when you might talk to such a woman, and she continues to give these welcoming and encouraging signals, and maybe a man finds he has a lot in common with such a woman and she seems to like talking to him, don't you think he might think I might have a very good chance to get to know this woman better?
Ok, so the man asks the woman if she might go out on a date with him. To be told 'I don't date co-workers', don't you think this is a bit of a cop out. Is this just an excuse to say no? Yes a woman has a right to say no to a bloke, but has any guy come across this situation before?
All I'd like to say to women out there is be carefull what signals you send.
Oh, and I know I'm not alone in thinking this way, because I know of at least 3 other blokes who have read the same signals from the same woman.
It may break some bloke's heart. It did this one.
When a woman smiles A LOT at people, what does it signify?
That she is happy most of you will say probably, but perhaps I haven't explained it properly. When a women smiles (really smiles, wide grin, wide eyes, open expression) yes,often and to many people, it's a very welcoming and alluring, I might say sexy thing. When she is pleasant and friendly to everyone to a man anyway, it is. To a woman? I don't know. I'm not a woman.
Now, when you might talk to such a woman, and she continues to give these welcoming and encouraging signals, and maybe a man finds he has a lot in common with such a woman and she seems to like talking to him, don't you think he might think I might have a very good chance to get to know this woman better?
Ok, so the man asks the woman if she might go out on a date with him. To be told 'I don't date co-workers', don't you think this is a bit of a cop out. Is this just an excuse to say no? Yes a woman has a right to say no to a bloke, but has any guy come across this situation before?
All I'd like to say to women out there is be carefull what signals you send.
Oh, and I know I'm not alone in thinking this way, because I know of at least 3 other blokes who have read the same signals from the same woman.
It may break some bloke's heart. It did this one.