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Valentines Day is basically a day I take matters into my own hands and try to make myself feel special. I've nobody to hang out with, and nobody who wants to make a big deal outta me, so I try to figure out what a good day would be, and do it.
 
I'm not sure how I feel about it. Remember back in High School where they had candy grams or Secret Admirer? I remember seeing girls get roses and candy from other people but I never got anything. It makes me depressed to say the least and my birthday is 4 days after Valentine's Days. I was the girl who was quiet and left alone by most people. Not many people spoke to me, I was an outsider, a wallflower. Anytime a holiday comes up I tend not to make a big deal about it simply cause I always got such great disappointment.
 
Back in elementary school we'd all have to give each other little Valentine's cards and/or candy. Miss those days. Now I'm just meh about it all, don't really care for it. Though I do wish my dad still bought me stuffed animals... can't have too many of those... This Valentine's I'll be sitting my ass in front of the computer, as usual.
 
valentines day sucks when you have no one that's in a relationship with you.


Psycho Love said:
Back in elementary school we'd all have to give each other little Valentine's cards and/or candy. Miss those days. Now I'm just meh about it all, don't really care for it. Though I do wish my dad still bought me stuffed animals... can't have too many of those... This Valentine's I'll be sitting my ass in front of the computer, as usual.

i never liked it when we had to give valentine cards and candy to everyone because i always thought it was fake. no one really liked me, they just had to give me something because i was just another person in class. i'm glad the whole "tradition" stopped after elementary school. though i liked those little candy hearts. they should make one for me that says "FOREVER ALONE"

:club:
 
Valentine's day comes and goes and 9/10 times I don't even realize it. As with any holiday, I feel the pushing of its merchandise as early as December can take away from novelty of the holiday itself, but then again, it also lessens the sting for the more bitter folks if the romance of the holiday is tarnished by commercialism. Everything serves a purpose.

Personally, I would find it sweet if I could come across a couple that celebrated the holiday but didn't give into the diamond-and-chocolate marketing schemes. I'm not much of a romantic person, myself, but it's always nice to see others appreciate their partner with their whole heart.
 
I passionately express my hate for valentines day. I'm quite sure most of us on here despise it. >_>
 
Doubt The Rabbit said:
Valentine's day comes and goes and 9/10 times I don't even realize it. As with any holiday, I feel the pushing of its merchandise as early as December can take away from novelty of the holiday itself, but then again, it also lessens the sting for the more bitter folks if the romance of the holiday is tarnished by commercialism. Everything serves a purpose.

Personally, I would find it sweet if I could come across a couple that celebrated the holiday but didn't give into the diamond-and-chocolate marketing schemes. I'm not much of a romantic person, myself, but it's always nice to see others appreciate their partner with their whole heart.

i agree Doubt the Rabbit
 
it used to be just cards. Now it's all sorts of crap. Window displays in every shop. It's a money making exercise that's all !
 
loads of adverts on the TV, boring as fresia !

This guy at work asked me when it was. He then said he would have to 'do something' - i think he was showing off, saying 'look ive got a woman'
 
I like to watch this cartoon at this time of year.

Contains graphic images, nsfw etc

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