River Lion
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LONG BORING INTRO FOR CONTEXT:
Hi everyone. I know its been a while since I was last here. I was last here on June 19, 2014. Wow.
Last time I made a thread about how to talk to women in a university setting. To keep my follow-up short, no, I did not make any progress. I returned to school in September and made no progress with flirting, dating, and all that stuff.
I am not saddened by this fact. In fact, I am totally unmoved. Maybe it is because I am too stoic, or I have given up on the quest of trying to form intimate relationships.
STRAIGHT TO THE POINT:
I turned 19 last August. At that point, I still hadn't hugged, kissed, dated, flirted, or done anything intimiate with a woman. I didn't feel angry, or sexually frustrated. I just felt nothing but a tiny bit of curiosity. I knew I could wait until I got my social life in order, but I didn't care to wait.
So I decided I wanted to just end it. I am 19, I have a job, why not withdraw $100 from the bank and head to the stirp club down the road from the university.
That's exactly what I did. I'm not going to waste time going into the details of the whole trip. But, as you can expect, I have now seen a pair of breasts in real life (not on a computer screen). I have also paid for a private dance. I have felt a woman bite my ear, breathe down my neck, rub her breasts in my face, etc. (but no kissing or sex, obviously)
I guess this sort of emulates the physical actions you'd recieve from an intimate female partner. But there is a MASSIVE chunk missing. And that is the emotional connection.
My stripper, Bethany, who bit my ear could only emulate the physical aspect of what a girlfriend would offer me. But the emotional, romantic, connection I would feel as context in an intimate moment is absent. It will be absent until I find an actual girlfriend. And for this reason, I think strip clubs and escorts only fill the void temporarily but will never provide full closure.
So I bring you this story because I want to discuss a few things.
- Has anyone else done this? Felt too lazy to overcome their hurdles with women and just decided to "take the easy way out" and pay for intimacy?
- I have read lots of stories about virgin men who eventually gave up the pursuit and paid for an escort. What do you think of this action? Is it cowardly, unhealthy...or is it a positive way to end a fruitless endeavour?
Hi everyone. I know its been a while since I was last here. I was last here on June 19, 2014. Wow.
Last time I made a thread about how to talk to women in a university setting. To keep my follow-up short, no, I did not make any progress. I returned to school in September and made no progress with flirting, dating, and all that stuff.
I am not saddened by this fact. In fact, I am totally unmoved. Maybe it is because I am too stoic, or I have given up on the quest of trying to form intimate relationships.
STRAIGHT TO THE POINT:
I turned 19 last August. At that point, I still hadn't hugged, kissed, dated, flirted, or done anything intimiate with a woman. I didn't feel angry, or sexually frustrated. I just felt nothing but a tiny bit of curiosity. I knew I could wait until I got my social life in order, but I didn't care to wait.
So I decided I wanted to just end it. I am 19, I have a job, why not withdraw $100 from the bank and head to the stirp club down the road from the university.
That's exactly what I did. I'm not going to waste time going into the details of the whole trip. But, as you can expect, I have now seen a pair of breasts in real life (not on a computer screen). I have also paid for a private dance. I have felt a woman bite my ear, breathe down my neck, rub her breasts in my face, etc. (but no kissing or sex, obviously)
I guess this sort of emulates the physical actions you'd recieve from an intimate female partner. But there is a MASSIVE chunk missing. And that is the emotional connection.
My stripper, Bethany, who bit my ear could only emulate the physical aspect of what a girlfriend would offer me. But the emotional, romantic, connection I would feel as context in an intimate moment is absent. It will be absent until I find an actual girlfriend. And for this reason, I think strip clubs and escorts only fill the void temporarily but will never provide full closure.
So I bring you this story because I want to discuss a few things.
- Has anyone else done this? Felt too lazy to overcome their hurdles with women and just decided to "take the easy way out" and pay for intimacy?
- I have read lots of stories about virgin men who eventually gave up the pursuit and paid for an escort. What do you think of this action? Is it cowardly, unhealthy...or is it a positive way to end a fruitless endeavour?