Restless soul
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Now to explain. This was in a photo. This was someone
That I matched with on tinder. This was a woman who I thought her profile was fake at first. This is a woman who was not born here and her first language is not english
Ok..now that we got all that out of the way.
You are are wondering why on earth would someone say that you would think liked you or found you somewhat attractive on an app that is based on appreance? Well good question. Well I assumed she liked my photo. And we were even taking on phone. She was even open and still is open to meet. But somehow we go to talking about my photo and she told me she showed my photo to her co- worker and her co worker said I had a "mean face" ok granted I see how that can be. Since I was not smiling in that photo. But mean face I can deal with. But somehow we got to talking more about my photos. And she kinda came out and said she didnt think I was handsome. Which is odd.
Becuse A. Why would you say that to someone you are planning on meeting? And here is my main problem.
That I just don't agree. And I got compliments from people who said I am nice looking. I think I am nice looking. Not a super model by any stretch. So C. Is why on earth would I still want to meet a woman who thinks that? And..my main issue is. The biggest problem is why I am posting in self-esteem. Is when I hear a negative something like this from someone. A woman
Should I believe it? I am unnatractive? All it takes is one comment like that to throw me into a bad thinking pattern. Even after feeling good. Feeling I am a nice looking guy. So should I believe this woman. And think that is the case that I am not handsome? Eventhough I don't really think so??
That I matched with on tinder. This was a woman who I thought her profile was fake at first. This is a woman who was not born here and her first language is not english
Ok..now that we got all that out of the way.
You are are wondering why on earth would someone say that you would think liked you or found you somewhat attractive on an app that is based on appreance? Well good question. Well I assumed she liked my photo. And we were even taking on phone. She was even open and still is open to meet. But somehow we go to talking about my photo and she told me she showed my photo to her co- worker and her co worker said I had a "mean face" ok granted I see how that can be. Since I was not smiling in that photo. But mean face I can deal with. But somehow we got to talking more about my photos. And she kinda came out and said she didnt think I was handsome. Which is odd.
Becuse A. Why would you say that to someone you are planning on meeting? And here is my main problem.
That I just don't agree. And I got compliments from people who said I am nice looking. I think I am nice looking. Not a super model by any stretch. So C. Is why on earth would I still want to meet a woman who thinks that? And..my main issue is. The biggest problem is why I am posting in self-esteem. Is when I hear a negative something like this from someone. A woman
Should I believe it? I am unnatractive? All it takes is one comment like that to throw me into a bad thinking pattern. Even after feeling good. Feeling I am a nice looking guy. So should I believe this woman. And think that is the case that I am not handsome? Eventhough I don't really think so??