I ******* HATE VALENTINES DAY

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V-day ******* sucks!!! Its just another day that makes me wanna put a bullet to my head. Just ******* end it all. A pointless, fake, messed up holiday. Marketing day. BULLSHIT!!!!! They wanna kill lonely people. Why do this. Destroy Valentines day, if your with me and hate the day reply to this thread. End the ******* day already, so maybe I wont end my **** life.
 
Well..lonely guy, you can change how you see it. You can try to ignore what others are doing and see it like as if it's any other day. Be oblivious to your surroundings just for the day and hang on. Keep yourself occupied or something and don't think too much about it or let it bother you. Just a suggestion. Hope you'll be okay though.
 
Valentines aint that big anyways. New yrs and Xmas are more hyped up.
 
yea, I just ignore it. Its only one day. They show much less ads on TV ,less iritating. For some reason I dont even care about Valentines anymore. I heard or read somewhere that St.Valentine never existed. I never got anything for this stupid holiday so why care. The only person that I got a present (with her own money ) is my mother just to thank her for everything she's done for me. Even if I werent broke no one else would be getting anything for Christmas, Valentines or their birthdays. I hate those holidays too.
 
Yeah I dont like V-day as well! I say make Halloween the standard for all hollidays^^ So i can watch scary movies all month on the tube and dream of being something more than myself and freakin endulge on candy and beer along with some taste tricks to scare the masses mwahahah
 
Ahh yes I hate this holiday too. Red and pink make me feel horrible like I'm some sort of alien and that it isn't for me. I don't even have anything against red or pink, it's just seeing them together on something makes me want to gag. Only 6 more days and this wretched holiday is over with for another year.
 
I get frustrated by Valentine's Day too.

It doesn't stop me from sending Valentine's Day cards, though. I mean, nobody said that it had to be requited ;)

Unrequitedly yours,
IO
 
My friend died on valentine's day 6 years ago. And for those past 6 years, this time of the year has been the worst for me, it just reminded me of how alone I am in the world, and the fact that everyone else is celebrating makes it worse it's like they are celebrating everything wrong with my life...But this year, so far, I've been a lot more positive about it all, and I think a lot of it can be contributed to this site so thank you guys for making me feel welcome, it means a lot to me especially around this time of year
 
My view is that Valentines Day is just a marketing ploy for florists, newspaper classifieds and the stuffed toy and balloon factories in China to make alot of money in one day. Why do you have to wait for a certain day to tell some one that you love them, it's just a load of rubbish.
 
I agree with the fact that valentines day is just a ploy used by stores to sell their products which happened to be pink colored . Its all BS. If i had a gf then i mightve enjoyed it but since ive never had one , DOWN WITH ******* VALENTINES DAY!!!!!!!!!
 
Lonely Boy from OZ said:
Valentines aint that big anyways. New yrs and Xmas are more hyped up.

They are the times I hate the most as well. New yrs and Xmas that is.

But ye I agree with all the others here that its just a marketing thing that big businesses do.

And also ye What Blue Sky said. You should not need a day to tell some one that you love them.
 
fresia it. Im smoking herb or something that day and listening to Night with Alice Cooper. Jamming out the night with my guitar.
 
ya the pink and red are just bad colors together makes me feel unwell. And feburary is just dreary month. it's been winter for 3 months i think v day is a way for people to think about something other than the cold. I don't like it either. But who doesn't love chocolate, just go buy yourslef a little happy for yourself cause you just that awesome

:D

dp i post too many smilie faces? I just love them
 
I hate it, too. It's a Hallmark Holiday meant to sell pesticide-laden roses, overpriced greeting cards full of gooey sentiments, overpriced and lackluster 'couples dinners' and cheap waxy chocolates in gaudy beribboned hearts.
 
Hate it, love it... if you had someone to share it with, you would.

Frankly, I just don't really think about it much. I don't see the point of hating a holiday just because I happen to be single, especially since I'd be looking forward to it if I wasn't. Plus, spewing that "I hate Valentine's Day" talk to other people isn't exactly going to make me a runner up in someone's relationships list.
 
blak000 said:
Hate it, love it... if you had someone to share it with, you would.

Frankly, I just don't really think about it much. I don't see the point of hating a holiday just because I happen to be single, especially since I'd be looking forward to it if I wasn't. Plus, spewing that "I hate Valentine's Day" talk to other people isn't exactly going to make me a runner up in someone's relationships list.
*nods*
I kinda agree.
 
Regardless of my current relationship status I've never cared for the bombardment of advertising that seems to accompany holidays. I avoid watching commercial television simply because of the fact that I'm tired of people I've never met before asking me to spend money on things I don't need or even want.

Do people really still respond to advertising? If I need something, I go out and find it myself. If it's something expensive, I look up reviews or ask people that already have it and ask their opinion. I certainly don't listen to a commercial and base my purchasing decisions on that.

One of the main reasons our culture has such a problem with credit card debt is that people can't seem to make sensible decisions about what they buy. They follow blindly into the latest trendy thing on tv and spend ungodly amounts of money on stupid things. Don't be a sheep.

Sorry, this strayed a little far from the Valentine's Day theme but it kind of ties into it. Valentine's Day is just another fabricated holiday designed to make you spend money. It says nothing about the ones you love and like someone mentioned before, you shouldn't have to have a holiday just to do something nice for someone.
 
As a marketing major in college, the answer is essentially yes. While people aren't actually "mind controlled" or anything by mass advertising, it is excellent for building awareness and public image.

If you suddenly had a hankering to order in pizza, for example, your mind would most likely think of Dominos or Little Caesar because you've seen their name on the TV so much. If you were choosing a car and prioritizing safety, chances are that you'll think of Volvo because of its ads regarding safety. And of course, the single best example: think of a soda and you'll tie it immediately to Coca-Cola or Pepsi.

Advertising doesn't actually control us blindly, but it feeds into deepseated needs and takes advantage of it. Look at every Zales' commercial that promises a happy ending - it feeds into our need for a stable relationship if only we purchase that ring.

Or look at how Gordon's Jewelers aims for a different angle, with the women bragging about how their men purchased them jewelry from Gordon's. It aims at a triple kill - first, it tells men that our girls will be proud of us if we buy them Gordon's Jewelry; next, it tells women that they will have more social credit with their girlfriends if they can show that their men prize them enough to buy them Gordon's; finally, it positions Gordon's Jewelry as premium and quality(because why else would women be bragging about it, and their men spending so much money on it?).

In an interesting case of reality mimicking art mimicking reality, this cheerleader student of mine was talking to me once and one of her fantasies involved being able to tell her sister and other girls of her boyfriend: "He got it at Gordon's!" Now if only her boy would actually buy it for her...

Regards,
IO
 
I second your motion!!!!

Gee... let's celebrate "love" via a ridiculously tacky marketing scheme (cheap chocolate; vulgar heart-shaped shite; hackney-phrased cards for those too inept to communicate sincerely) , based on the decapitation of a saint...

???????
 
of course one might say that an ingrediant for a great eonomy in a country, have the majority of your population have religious belifs in buying lots of stuff.

I've that some stores make 50% of their anual profit during the christmas season. so moraly it might not be all that great but think of the economy, unless your in debt. 1st you have to earn then you have to spend
 

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