Recent content by bd1974

What I got out of this is - you must be cute. For those of us who aren't cute, this won't work. :(

This also sounds like me. I could have written it. However, I gave up on God helping me a long, long time ago. People told me that I had to rely on God's timing. But I refuse to believe that God wanted me to be miserable for 42 years. That is just too cruel to comprehend.

Sorry. I should have said every female I've ever encountered is incredibly shallow. I guess there are those out there that aren't, but I've never met them.

I can't tell if you're being serious. If it was this easy, then people wouldn't be sexually frustrated. Everyone knows about these sites but they generally don't work. If you are attractive enough to find someone via one of these sites, then you probably could just get someone through...

I had someone recommend Tinder to me. For months, I didn't even understand how it worked because I got no matches. It wasn't until I watched a random YouTube video that I realized that you message girls that like you back. That was my problem. In all those months, there wasn't a single, solitary...

So when the girl takes one look at you and walks away, that still counts right? 8 of those and they don't have to give you a refund?

Love is luck. Pure and simple. There is not someone for everyone. If you find love, it's simply because you got lucky. A lot of us have terrible luck so the odds aren't good.

Unfortunately, with women it always comes back to looks. Go work out more and maybe you'll be attractive. Well, I'm short so that wouldn't matter.

The problem is, this is who I am. People say "just be confident" like you can just flip a switch. I've lived 41 years this way and I really don't think I'm that a bad of a person. Why can't women just accept men for who they are?

Menorahman is correct. It's all about attractiveness. If you are ugly, it doesn't matter how much confidence you have. Sometimes people get this wrong because attractive people ARE confident. So some women will lie and say it's the confidence that drew them in because it makes them look shallow...

I agree 100%. This guy is obviously super attractive or he wouldn't be getting all that attention. Attractive people don't always realize that's the reason things are working for them.

I'm too short and ugly to be worthy of love.

That just hasn't been my experience. In almost 42 years, I've never seen it. Women SAY they are attracted to confidence, sense of humor, etc. But that guy just so happens to be the best looking guy in the room. But that's just a coincidence, right? And if you're short like me, then it's an...

True. With 7 billion people in the world, that is bound to happen on occasion. But it's not the norm and certainly can't be relied on. And yes, I meant physical attractiveness. For example, I'm short and ugly. It doesn't matter what kind of attitude I have.

This is the logic I always hear, but it's unfortunately wrong. What draws people (i.e. potential relationships) is attractiveness. If you aren't attractive, then you don't have confidence and you have a negative attitude. It's not the negative attitude that keeps people away (although people...