Recent content by crayon man

I'm not sure about gaslighting etc...not really come across it, but reading your post about alcohol made me think, that I came out of a relationship, on of, more times than a switch, and the main culprit, alcohol, my then girlfriend never stopped being abusive or making me feel bad, they would...

Look at it this way, things change, this is just a starting point, just build on it, and try not to go too fast, there is a long road ahead. I haven't seen my son in over 12 years when he was 7, so my mind still dreams and thinks he's 7 when in reality he is nearly 21, I did try to see him...

I don't think I ever had proper friends growing up, my parents moved a lot, and I do remember figments in my memory, but all seem hazy to me now, I'm nearly 51, and basically, everyone is gone, when I mean gone, they're gone, dead. I've been living on my own in North Yorkshire UK, for a good...

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Whoever you meet online, my advice, try to meet them ASAP,don't waste your time talking for months, etc....I think as humans, we build a picture of someone subconsciously,and this can be a good or bad thing, but your expectations can be altered, and eventually, IF you do meet them, there not the...

Ive read some of it , it probably wasnt great idea to send , but hindsight is a wonderful thing , we have all done daft things. What is evident , your hurting and you can feel the pain in the email. To be honest , she probably read a little and deleted. My advice , is just to leave it , do...

What you may be suffering is depression and or anxiety attacks , i dont want to use the word `mild` as it makes it sound less important. Mild can turn `severe` so its all important. You have to start somewhere , and here is the place , i read alot of negative things , but reading , i see...

Goto the doctor , you may need to see a counciller , GO , start small and things hopefully get better , if not you dont give up , you keep going. Ive told alot of people , stay off Facebook , sometimes i feel that site should have a health warning , there is a link , you can totally delete your...

Like my OP , i think your doing the right thing , but in the end , it depends on the woman. Personally , woman dont want to see you `needy` to start with , later , thats ok , but at the beginning , they want to feel , you have other options and might not bother with them , you have your own...

What ive learnt from woman over the years is , never seem to keen , even though you really want to , and its killing you , just slow the contact down , and it feels like you have more control over the situation. Like the playing golf , she texts you , say you will have to check and get back to...

Im 39 , living in the UK , the last few years have been terrible for but enough about me. Im in a similar position with my life , live on my own , Im ill as well , i can go weeks without seeing anyone. The funny thing about life is , it can change in a whisper , and i always hope for that.Thats...

Loneliness is a terrible curse. Its not loneliness with some people , its boredom. Ive been alone now for 4 years , and its took a terrible tole on my life. I have lost practically everything , including my son. I keep going and hoping one day it will change. Have tried joining groups etc ...