Recent content by Gauche

Funny you should ask, I'm listening to That 1 Guy!

I fed a poor one-eyed cat that came around begging. I think I have a new friend, wish people were that easy...

LOL...me too, didn't get anywhere on that site, but I'm so glad you did Viper! I will live through you vicariously for now.....

OK, I'll give you that. I've had one short-lived relationship in my life, I didn't love her, she didn't love me, but it still was the high point in my life. It's difficult to go through life and see the majority of people flit from one relationship to the next like it's nothing, and wonder what...

Right on. I don't mean to diminish anyone's loneliness, people are lonely for any number of reasons, regardless of their life situations, but what I wouldn't give to know that at least someone had loved me for a little while.

This is a long shot, but what the hell. Just wanted to see if there are any females in my area that are in the same boat as me. Anxiety/depression makes it difficult for me to even meet anyone, and quickly drives them away if I do. This isn't a dating site so I'm not going to get too into...

Gauche 42, Wisconsin, USA

It absolutely makes sense, and I think that most of us who have found our way here, are at the point where we really need someone to open up to.

I'm sure I will I'm Fine, actually I already have. I shouldn't make such blanket statements but it's hard not to in such a short intro. I meant that when I encounter shy/quiet people I can see why I have such a hard time meeting people. I think to myself, "is that what I act like around people...

That's interesting, as someone who lives alone, I find it hard to understand how someone with family around them could possibly be lonesome. I guess it goes to show that what you think is making you lonely isn't necessarily the true reason. As they say, "the grass is always greener on the other...

Well, I'm continuing the takeover. I'm sorry too Ambitious... I've read it somewhere that extroverts tend to prefer many superficial relationships or acquaintances, while introverts prefer fewer very close relationships. I definitely fall into the introvert category. Friends are always telling...

Nice to hear that I made you laugh, that makes me feel better too. I think for most, the problems of others are not a concern unless you're having the same problems. I think I'm better than most at caring for people around me, but I can understand the need to be an individual too. I think the...

I was speaking relatively about my age. LOL. But you said in an earlier post that you haven't matured beyond 28. I'm sure you've matured beyond 28, but if you're like me, you don't feel any older in mind, just in body. I didn't listen to my elders when I was younger either, but now I'm at the...

No John, no! You're not too old. I don't know how many people here are your age, but don't worry about it. I'm 42, I have friends that are in their sixties, and simply put, they kick ass! I'm positive that you have a lot to offer here, and that some of us young folk can offer you something as well.

Hey Ambitious, You are ambitious anyway that's a good thing. You didn't say much about your reasons for having a hard time finding friends, but I can relate. I tend to have a few really close friends rather than many acquaintances, and I know how it feels when one of those few moves away/moves...