Recent content by hppnssseeker

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. We're both late 30s and we met online while looking for the person to settle down with. Things have been going great and I definitely see a future with him but now there is a problem. We live in different cities so we spend from Sat afternoon to Mon...

Here I am, going through life without romantic love. For a long time I didn't even look for it, stupidly thinking at the right time it would just happen. I didn't experience the emotional rollercoaster that love can put you through but I was feeling numb and lonely. So in the past year I started...

I'm going through the exact same thing unfortunately. I was broken up with a month ago and while I'm here suffering he's happy because he got back together with an ex. I'm reeling and find myself crying at the drop of a hat. Only time will heal this wound but in the meantime I'm keeping myself...

Definitely possible. Met one of the most handsome men I've seen in my life while online dating and we had zero sexual attraction for one another but we clicked in terms of conversation. We decided to stay friends and it's been great. Since we're both single and looking we can compare notes.

As a woman it wouldn't be a turn-off for me. As someone else already stated, many women would find it cute, as long as you don't get offended if she gives you tips on how to get better. I don't even see why you would have to tell her you've never kissed anyone before. If you like her, kissing is...

Thank you all. I realized I couldn't accept him dating both of us. We decided to take a break.

Thank you for all your replies!

I'm in my late 30s and I've been single for a long time. The rare times I meet someone I like he's always unavailable. In the last 2 years I've intensified my efforts to meet new guys, especially through online dating. That's how a month ago I met the man of my dreams. Honestly, he has every...

From a rational point of view it makes sense. He doesn't know me or her well, it's too early for him to choose. I guess I'm just so fed up with being so unlucky in love and how it feels i've been jumping through hoops for months just to have a chance at a relationship that is probably not even...

I'm 37 and I have been online dating for several months now. I find it to be a long and exhausting process. I've only met 15 guys so far and  have felt chemistry with only one. He has all the qualities I was hoping to find and when he told me he wanted to go out on a second date I was over the...

I HATE when people say that. I've tried both actively looking for love and letting things just casually happen and I haven't had any luck either way, but at least with an active approach I don't feel like I  just let my life go by without making an effort to find love.

Are you saying what I consider qualities are turn-offs for guys? Then what the hell do men want??? I really don't get it.

Actually I'm in my 30s. I'd like to take the time to get to know the guy and see if an attraction develops, but the guy never does. He wants things to turn romantic pretty quickly and I can't do that with a guy I'm not physically attracted to. So I'm forced to make a decision very soon after...

I'm a woman and I'm in the same boat as you. I've been online dating and I think that even after 1 short date it is usually possible to tell if there is potential or not. That doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, it's just that there wasn't any particular chemistry with this girl. I...

How hard can it be to find a guy I like who is available for a relationship??? I've been trying online dating for months and I'm back to square one. The craziest thing is I'm a beautiful woman, I have a nice personality, I'm stable and independent. I've met guys who were interested in me but...